what should i do?

Question

There is this guy, i like him, he likes me, i asked him out, he said he didnt want a gf right now, he just wants to mess around, moslty cause wrestling season for school is coming up and hes gunna be meeting all these girls from outta town, so mess with them and not talk to them again
ive been friends with him for 3 years
WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!??! i really like him, and he said he likes me, but i have no clue what to do.
it it helps-im almost 16
hes almost 17

Answer 1

This guy just told you that he wants to use a bunch of girls who will fool around with him just because he's on the wrestling team. He is only looking for notches on his bedpost. Get out of his way before you become one. If he only wants to be around girls he disrespects and uses, you don't want him near you. Get over him and find a nice guy.

Answer 2

Leave him alone. He's already made it clear that he wants to mess around with whoever crosses his path. Do you really want a guy like that for a boyfriend? Even if he does eventually go out with you, that won't stop him from being a player.

Sure he likes you, but not enough to give up screwing around. Let someone else get the stds he's bound to catch or have the baby mama drama, it's just a matter of time with him. You don't need that.

Answer 3

Aaaaaaa dont go there!!! If he 'liked you' as much as you like him then he would **** the rest of them girls. Hes 17 and men at that age are like dog on heat just want a quick 'mess' around with any girl in sight.

He said to you he wants to only 'mess' with you aswell right??
And said that the girls from wrestling hes only 'messing' with and then will never talk to them again!!

What makes you think you will be any diff......do you want to lose a friendship of 3 years for a quick 'mess' around.

Hope it all works out for you hun i know how hard it is to let go!!

Answer 4

You really don't want to mess with someone like that, at least not right now anyway. If he wants to go around and mess with this girl and that one from here and from there, who know's what he's gonna get himself into. It shows that he's 1) not mature enough to handle and solid relationship yet and 2) doesn't care about himself apparently, because there are alot of "things" going around these days. I'm just 18 myself and trust me, I know way more than I should about this type of thing. If he does calm down and decide he's ready for a relationship with you, and you still like him, make him get tested before you get involved.

Answer 5

I say you might want to forget about him.
if he wants to mess around with other girls he might no be the best guy for you, cuz that does sound kinda sleezy.
plus he's your friend if you guys go out and break up that might mess up your friend ship with him.

BUT you never know so i say wait till wrestling season is over and then you can both decide what you guys should do.
never make a decision without them it might mess up your chances with him.
but that is good that he doesnt want to be with you now cuz if he did he might be messing around on you.
DO WHAT YOU HEART TELLS YOU and NOTHING but.

p.s remember that guys his age never know exactly what they want unless theyre true, i know i am in a simaler situation i Love this guy but he says him and i dont click, so i am deciding to let go.
if your going to let go of it, sooner is better than later cuz later you might NEVER want to let go.

Answer 6

Be thankful that he is honest enough to tell you that he wants to use girls for his own selfish purposes. Sounds like he enjoys you as a friend, knows what you are looking for, and knows that he can not give you what you want. That is very noble on his part. Continue being his friend, but understand that he can not give you the type of relationship that you want so just remain friends.

Answer 7

You are way to young to settle, Im not saying be a whore... But keep your options open. Also if a guy likes you but doesnt want to be with you.. you run from that. They only want you for one thing. Otherwise he would want to be your boyfriend. Stay friends with him you might ruin the friendship if you chose to mess around with him. Tell me what's more worth it.. His friend ship or a night with him that wont matter a week from now?

Answer 8

Ewww, i can just imagine all the good stuff he'll bring you from those wrestling mats and those other schools cheerleaders. Best find someone else to "mess around with."

Answer 9

I wouldn’t even be friends with a guy who thinks it ok to just fool about with girls – he has no respect for women or himself… I’m sure it will not be easy but drop him fast before he really hurts you!

If a boy cares about you really love you sex will not be a issue, and he wouldn’t want to see other girls… it might take some time – and your young - enjoy it! Go out have fun, met boys; but be strong. Love and respect yourself, and love and respect will come to you… ;)

Answer 10

When guys say they don't want a gf it means that they don't want YOU to be their gf. He just wants to use you for his sexual pleasure. NOT GOOD! Don't fall for it, because sooner or later he will find a girl that he likes enough to make his gf, and you will be tossed aside with a broken heart. DON'T LET HIM USE YOU LIKE THAT! Wait for the boy that will make you his gf now.