2006-11-06 09:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by black angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dont, love is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to. enjoy it while it last
2006-11-06 10:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
Most of the time you don't.
But in my case....
My boyfriend and I were friends for a long time so we knew each other pretty well before we started going out. We knew what we both wanted in a relationship. We talked about it. We wanted someone we could be with for the rest of each other's lives. We didn't want some random fling or some temporary uncaring relationship. We wanted something real and we wanted something to last. We even told each other to let one another know when the other is being annoying or making the other frustrated with something so that we can try to fix it. Because we really do love each other and want this to last. So that being said, we know it's gonna last. It's been 9 months so far.
So it's pretty much about communication and real love.
And you don't know if any of it is real at the very moment you meet that person.
You have to give it time.
2006-11-06 18:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know. I know that sucks, but love is a risk. If you think it might fail, it probably will. And if you think it may last, then it still might not. It's like a catch 22, but you definitely need to give your all in order for there to be a chance at it lasting. And another thing, just have faith in the relationship and in your boyfriend. Make sure you have strong communication and trust and those will help the relationship to remain strong.
2006-11-06 18:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One never knows if it's going to last. You simply have to decide whether you are willing to find out how long. If you care deeply and are cared for, then it is a risk worth exploring. If that is not the case, then the risk is too great.
2006-11-06 18:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by HGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Nothing in this life is guaranteed. Although there are strong signs that a relationship is going to have a lot more longevity than others.
2006-11-06 18:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are at the age to get married yoou dont even then you dont really know for sure ever people always change.
2006-11-06 17:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by Amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't know...
you just gotta live life with that person for as long as you can n hope it last thats all...
2006-11-06 18:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by MistyBlu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one knows for sure. that's just the chance you take. however, you can't live your life every day thinking that it might fall apart.
2006-11-06 17:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, it's kind of like gambling...sometimes you are just waiting to hit it big!
2006-11-06 18:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't know for sure but if the person really loves you and you really love that person its mite work out
2006-11-06 18:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by vc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋