she insisted she pay ?!?! but i said no my treat and she refused next time should i jis let her pay?
2006-11-06 09:46:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let her pay, if she can afford it, there's no point in having an argument over something like that. But don't take advantage of it, still be willing and offer to take her out, especially for special occasions.
2006-11-06 09:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by simplegrl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her pay. Then if you want to go out to dinner with her again, tell her that "this time the treats on me", since she paid the last time. No, never take advantage of that. Take turns paying, and sometimes go dutch.
Girls are taught, these days, to be independent, so they won't feel obligated to you perchance your motive for taking them out was just to get her in to bed or something. It's a respectful thing mind you. Continue respecting her for what she does. :-)
2006-11-06 17:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries! When I'm with my boyfriend I hate to have him pay ALL the time. My parents make me work for every cent of my spending money, so I really value someone spending money on me. And I love to return the favor and spend money on people I care about!
So to answer your question sipmly, if she wants to pay let her pay(but be the gentleman and always offer first)
2006-11-06 17:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Melvina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a women wants to pay, let her. Offer next time and see what happens. Cut the macho crap and let her break bread if she wants to.
2006-11-06 17:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol hell yeah, if she wants to pay, let her....its the 21st cent. not the 1800s any relationship is a 50/50 thing do'nt let or make her but if she wants to now and again
2006-11-06 17:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure let her pay, if she really wants to why stop her? Just don't make it a habit. Take turns!
2006-11-06 17:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much of a gentleman you really are. If you are a true gentlemen, you wouldn't, no matter how much she complains or whatever else.
2006-11-06 17:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by red 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
let her pay and give you services later.
2006-11-06 17:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
if she really wants to then let her.
2006-11-06 17:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by champ22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋