I have a girlfriend at the moment, and have had alot more than average for my age. The reason for this is, whenever I get a girlfriend and keep her for about 3 weeks, I find myself flirting with other girls, it's just natural for me, and I lose alot of girls because of it. I've had a few girls that I really liked and tried not to flirt with anyone else, but then I messed it up to. Girls, please give me your advice on what I should do, having alot of girlfriends is a dream for some guys, but it gets annoying after a while and you keep losing them, so please help. Thanks.
2006-11-06 09:40:58 · 15 answers · asked by Snake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try not to flirt with other girls while you have a girlfriend. If you must flirt with other girls, make sure that you flirt with your girlfriend even more than you do the others, and make sure it's in front of people. This should show your girlfriend that you're a guy so you flirt with whoever, but that you like her more than anyone else. Make sure she realizes that she's more important to you.
2006-11-06 09:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Snake,
First of all they say in all things that admitting it is the first step so bravo!
I am a flirt. It is as much a part of my personality as logic and my sense of humour.
The difference is that I am also very trustworthy. I would never ever cheat on my boyfriend and he knows it. My flirting is never overtly sexually and tends to lend itself more to playful teasing with a hint of sarcasm so the respondent knows that I am only flirting not trying to start anything.
SOOO
My advice is to try and change the way you flirt and be very very clear to the next girl you go out with that although you may engage in this type of banter you would never act on it!
Good luck
IF you can not do this then you have to stop cold turkey.
2006-11-06 09:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Fromage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i assume i will make certain that your particularly into her which isn't a foul situation yet you need to perhaps provide her some area because of the fact she basically broke up along with her previous bf. this could make her take a while because of the fact she needs to be unmarried for a on an analogous time as and probably basically take time to forget approximately it. She might ought to think of it by using. So I say be close pals for a on an analogous time as and then ask her back xoxo Shamz sturdy success
2016-10-15 11:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by blanga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on your age. You realize your doing something that your "girls" don't like then you should know how to control it. Its considered rude by most when you flirt in our presence. If your honest about how many girls you date at one time, no one can get mad at you. Be honest goes a long long long way! Only you can control the flirting and I honestly think when you are with the right girl, you won't flirt, you will be so hooked nothing else will matter.
2006-11-06 09:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really wanted to stop flirting so that you wouldn't lose someone who's special to you, you'd do it. So, take this as a sign that you're playing the field and not ready to be with just one person. When the right one comes along, the only one you'll want to flirt with is her.
2006-11-06 09:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help and find out what is wrong within yourself that you can not be happy even with the ones who you really really like. What makes you NEED to look for the greener grass?? I cantell you it is rarely greener on the other side and you are just hurting yourself in the long run by missing out on a wonderful lasting relationship.
2006-11-06 09:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have some hidden insecurities about your manhood... It seems as though you need attention and recognition from women at all times no matter what the cost! You must do it to prove something to yourself... what that is, I don't know but, you should figure it out or you'll end up a lonely old man... Good luck!!!
2006-11-06 09:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by mrsross 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop being selfish for one and understand that although you didn't realize it you have control over yourself. A simple fact guys dont seem to get.
2006-11-06 09:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt with anyone else....just focus on your girlfriend right now and if she sees you flirting more...she'll proably break up with you =/
2006-11-06 09:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you feel like that put i don't know what to tell you sorry i'm the same way put with guys and its about one week instead of three weeks
2006-11-06 09:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by photlips956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋