If two girls, for example, pretend they are a man and a woman experimenting with eachother- orally (not with kissing, or tongue, but on the genitals all the same), and with climbing on top of eachother- can they still develop normally, sexually or will this scar them? Is it normal for this to happen? If not, what does it mean? What does it mean for the initiator?
2006-11-06 09:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by nycgirl2003 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Children will mimic what they see other people do or see on TV, magazines, etc. These girls have obviously been exposed at way too young an age to sexually explicit material. They would NOT behave like this under normal circumstances and proper supervision and guidance.
They're probably still naive and innocent enough not to understand what they're doing. However, if nobody puts a stop to it, they're going to get into a heap of trouble at a very young age. Getting involved with sex at a young age WILL lead to all kinds of harm -- emotional baggage, STDs, rape, unexpected pregnancies, maybe even the trauma of abortion (and its MANY negative consequences), cervical cancel (from HPV which is transmitted sexually), etc.
I feel for these kids. I know one "progressive" (aka "stupid") woman whose mother had made her feel ashamed for masturbating as a young girl. It was an unpleasant experience and so she vowed not to do the same to her daughters. I'm okay with using the right tact so as not to scar your children (which usually just means being patient), but this woman went way in the other direction and put no limits instead preaching today's lefty lies that it's okay and normal and it's "good and important" to experiment. The result is that they'll spread their legs and play with themselves in front of the TV... right in front of a babysitter they just met! They'll resist if told to stop and start up again asap. Tell me these girls aren't headed for abuse, STDs, pregnancy, abortions, etc, etc. STUPID parents.
Just stop them and explain to them that those types of activities are only for grown up men and women after they're married. Explain to them that copying that behaviour can get them into a lot of trouble and that you want them to be safe. As they get older, they can learn more but at a young age, many times "I'm your parent and I said 'no'" just has to suffice.
What a world we live in. I worry for the kids growing up in this sexualized culture. We need to return to modesty or else fall off into the hedonistic abyss of broken hearts and empty souls.
2006-11-06 10:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rob VH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a very serious question.First of all thats not normal to say the least but at the same time they are not bad they just dont understand their bodies they should not be punished but they should be talked to in a very gentil way about what is appropriate and what is not appropriate you will have explain the basics of girls and boys a little earlier then you would have liked as a result of this.The behavior is not healthy and they need to know why in as nice and gentle a way a possible.Please dont yell or spank them the consequences will be permanent and devastating you need to have this conversation today it cannot wait. I hope this helps. Good luck
2006-11-06 09:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Playsex Games
2016-12-10 14:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are these girls, also they had to have learned it from somewhere if they are fairly young. How else would they know about one being a man and another being a woman. If it was innocent they wouldn't care about who is the girl and who is the guy. I would sit down and ask them about where they learned it from? but use little words and make them comfortable to talk because if they think they are in trouble the might not tell you or the truth. Good luck.
2006-11-06 09:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. We were so sad, I remember we had a club called the friendship club lmao, and we would play this game called PG which stood for ''private game'', so no one else was allowed to play, I don't even know what the game was, but yeah, how sad was that, and yeah, we would play all these stupid pretend games, and same, looking back at it, I just sit their cringing at what the hell was I doing. *Shudders* But I remember we used to play bulldog or something with the whole year, yeah that was fun :D
2016-05-22 05:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say its probably not too unusual. Its normal for people to be curious. I think out society has caused a lot more curiousity about what the same sex thing is about. I don't know that its completely healthy cause it might lead to some really confusing times but most often its found to just be innocent curiosity.
2006-11-06 09:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by Trevor 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I played alot of "sex games" with a female friends when i was young and now im gay. Hahaha, no seriously i am.
2006-11-06 20:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by coffeejitterzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just your corrupt mind. Children simply do what they see. They see people getting together, therefore they mimick it. They're not naturally promiscuous. That's your own corruption being reflected in all you have contact with.
2006-11-06 09:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Answerer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO. Stop them and explain to them that this is wrong. If you are an adult tell their parents right away.
2006-11-06 09:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋