My friend that I have been getting close to is doing something stupid. She has been hitting on this guy who has a girlfriend. She is trying to make herself look good by saying there just friends, but her and the guy are making like a secret language they use in the halls. Then the boyfriend cheated on the girlfriend and made out with my friend I have this hole thing about people growing up to fast in there sexual life. She is really pretty and has great potential to do something great in her life because she is so smart. But right now she is acting like a complete slu-t. I kinda like her but she is making me really mad. But I am not the only one who thinks this about her, Should I confront her or just leave her alone and get her out of my life because If she continues to act like this I dont want to be involved.
2006-11-06 09:16:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out of her life. She's gonna do what she wants. Appearently, without thinking of the consequences of the choices she makes.
To her she's probably just having fun. You don't have to completely get out of her life, but distancing yourself may not be a bad idea.
2006-11-06 09:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make stupid mistakes. Im guessing she likes him and is trying to get him to leave his gf for her. Things is, how faithful to her will he be?
if you leave everyone is does something stupid, your gonna be a very lonely person. If it bothers you that much, tell her what people are saying about her and what you think of it. It probably wont make any difference, but at least youve had your say.
2006-11-06 09:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you expect better from your friends, and girls who cheat with other boys and mess around aren't people you can trust. Or you can say nothing and just distance yourself from her by being too busy to hang out with her, and not giving her much of your time via phone, chat, text. etc. You can drift away.
2006-11-06 09:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to grow up and realize that she's doing nothing but making a fool out of herself . Smack her in the head and tell her to grow up.
2006-11-06 09:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i no that you are her friend and stuff but i would just leave her alone...if you still want to stay friends..if you were a good friend then you would support her and accept wht she is doing..it honestly isnt your bussiness about her sexual life and wht she does sexual....and others may think this but does it mean that if you are her friend that you are going to agree with her..i no i wouldnt do this to my friends....cause my friends are important to me..and i care about them with all my heart...i think you should just leave her and let her make her own decision..you dont sound to old anyways...its nice to be "protecting" her but its her decision....and her life let her experiment and if she needs help let her lean on your sholder..thats where you could help her...i hope this can help?
2006-11-06 09:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVIDENTLY SOME PEOPLE DONT SEE THE LIGHT UNTIL THEY ARE WAITING AT A BUS STOP S UC KING ON A LO LY POP WITH A BABY CARRIAGE..JUST WALK AWAY.
2006-11-06 09:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what, are you in middle school or something? so what if your friend likes him.. he should be the one to have more sense, because he is already dating someone..
2006-11-06 09:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you don't approve and if continues to do this, then get on with your life without her
2006-11-06 09:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that what she's doing is stupid. tell her that if she keeps doing this, u don't want to hang out with her anymore.
2006-11-06 09:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by kellycfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like her, then confront her
2006-11-06 09:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by Sarahbearah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋