If you really like this guy and then find out that he sells drugs?

Question

I really love him and we have alot of fun together, the whole time I think he is working construction because he has long money (meaning big bucks) but recently he told me because he loves me that he is like running a drug chain from one end of the country to the other. He is BIG TYME! I like the traveling, money and nice gifts but I really don't want to be a part of this, what do I do? And if I leave will he try and hurt me or think I will tell because now I know?I am really stuck, what do I do?

Answer 1

if he told you he loved you, then why would he try to hurt you? his drug buisness is serious. and if he gets caught he might end up spendign the rest of his life in jail. all the money he worked for will be gone..and you might even get in trouble to. are you willing to risk all of this for him? if you are then stay with him. if you are not then tell him all the dangers he is risking for both of you. and tell him that he needs to pick between drugs or you.

Answer 2

I was in the same situation once except i ignored what he was doing. He ended up costing me a lot of time and money and i almost got into a lot of trouble as a result of what he was doing. I know its hard but yu have to leave and try to loose contact. If he's so big theres probably already somebody keeping an eye on him or someone he works with and you may be found guilty by association. If your worried about him hurting you (then u shouldn't be with him) and you should tell him in a public place in case anything happens. Change your locks and your phone number if you need to. Tell your boss or your friends not to give him information about him if he comes looking for you. I regret i didn't get out earlier, you should ASAP

Answer 3

I can only tell you what I would do. I'd go to the police, spill my guts and let them protect you. But if you are afraid he'll hurt you, I'd make sure I had already contacted the police before breaking up with him. I certainly wouldn't stay with him. Someday he will get caught and if you are with him, you're just as guilty. Think of the lives he's ruining.

Answer 4

Boy, you sure have lots going on dont you ?? Big time drug dealer bf and a boss who wants to give you $$. Ok now you can wake up.

Answer 5

Only you know if he would hurt you, but why would he? You don't want to get caught-up in his crap. You're best bet is to just break-up with him. Tell him it's just not working. If's all that fly he'll have a new girlfriend in a week anyway, if he doesn't already.

Answer 6

run....straight to the cops..this guy is dangerous, no telling what he might do or his friends might do....he is too lazy to work a real job, he probably doesnt have time for a family and has little or no morals...is this something you would want to be around? or your kids to be around...put his as s in jail and get away from him

Answer 7

well, it depends on how big is big, i mean sure from caost to coast is big, but is it like very druggy has a phone number that eventually goes to him? you could be stuck, try talking to him about it, tell him how you don't like the fact that he deals drugs, but you like the thought that he wants to make you happy.

Answer 8

either tick with him and enjoy the benefits or tell him you want no part of it then leave but dont tell the cops because he'll know it was you and he could have you touched if he's so big

Answer 9

Tell him its not the life style that you want for yourself and as for being afriad of him hurting you - you can always do an protection order for yourself that way he can't get near you

Answer 10

IF HE SELLS DRUGS---DONT GO 4 HIM!!!!
It may seem cool-but trust me..It's not!!!
my dad is a cop-and I've seen people with screwed-up faces because of it!!!
I say NO!!!!