I just experimented a little with a girlfriend and I. I really like men, but I am starting to have feelings for my friend. I was a little drunk when we fooled around, but I knew what I was doing and I enjoyed it. She mentioned me joing her and her boyfriend. Would this ruin our friendship? Help!
2006-11-06 09:10:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the sounds of it, you may be bisexual - you're attracted to both men and women. You may find over time that you prefere one or the other. That you'll have to discover for yourself.
Over the course of your life, you may become involved with both men and women - I have had relationships with both. I've been with my boyfriend now for over 4 years, bit I still fancy girls, and I know that if we ever broke up, I would be as open to having a new relationship with either sex - to me it's the person that matters :) or you may find you only ever have relationships with guys. I wouldn't get too worried about it. I don't know where you live, so I don't know how homophobic people are where you are. However, just remember to be yourself, that's the most important thing :)
As for having a threesome - I would strongly urge you not to. Your friendship will be ruined. It may seem ok at the time, but things will never be the same. Jealously issues are bound to arise. Obviously, the choice is up to you, but I would say no to that!
2006-11-06 09:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Laurelin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like men then you would be Bi not a lesbian. Anyways I have done the joining of a friend and her man and not only did it ruin our friendship it also ruined their relationship.
But I had a blast with them while it lasted...hahahaha
2006-11-06 09:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like both girls and guys, then your bi-sexual.
As to joining your girlfriend and her boyfriend, that's a tough one, talk it over with her, let her know why your worried that it will ruin your friendship, and then make a decision.
2006-11-06 10:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by anjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fooling around with women doesn't make you a lesbian. not wanting men and only wanting women does.
3somes are tricky things. if you are capable of sport sex, and both your friend and her man are capable as well, it could be okay. the tricky part is if any one of you is fibbing about being able to handle sport sex. you could become emotionally interested in your friend or her boyfriend. she could get interested in you, she could get jealous of how you and her bf are sexually, and create distance between you and her. or the guy could get interested in you, or become jealous of how you and your friend get into it. Make sure no one thinks its a dangerous idea. Make sure you are open and honest with them, and make sure they are honest with you. After that, enjoy! nothing like 4 hands and 2 mouths working on your pleasure.
2006-11-06 09:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women need not be lesbians if they like to have sex with other women.
Still what do you enjoy more sex with men or sex with women? thats a question u need to answer!
Women always love another womens body even if they are not lesbians, its natural afterall women have such stunning curves and are more sensitive to the another womens needs than men ;)
women do have a small amount of testosterone in thier blood too u see ;), NO am not joking...lol
so its natural if you like other women, just dont freak out.
If you absultely hate having sex with men, than its an issue u need to consider. if not dont fret my girl. Enjoy your life and your sexuality
2006-11-06 09:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different societies (non American) have plenty diverse innovations of non-public area and touching than we do. in lots of societies, human beings of an identical gender retaining hands and walking arm-in-arm is as organic as individuals of an identical gender status an arm's length removed from one yet another. as nicely to being completely commonplace, i might additionally wager that the girls you describe are additionally guffawing their butts off on the reactions that they get while they act, "stupid" such as you describe. No, i don't think of they're lesbians. they merely are not as hung-up approximately touching as you/we are.
2016-11-27 23:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are true friends it want ruin anything .. and no your not a lesbian .. I have been in 3somes and 4somes with my best friend and its just sex and the next day everything was back to normal.. its not big deal.. if you want to then do it .. have fun
2006-11-06 09:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by nobodysangel2469 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwwwwww, lesbianism.
2006-11-06 09:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....it would ruin the friendship. You're bi
2006-11-06 09:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may or may not this is something you need to decide. Good luck.
2006-11-06 09:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋