Can A Fat Girl Get A Guy?

Question

Ok drum roll...... I weigh 230 pds, I am a freshman in High School, and have never had a boyfriend. It seems that all guys care about is a skinny girl without personality. So, will I ever get one?

Thanks for all the great answers, I'll keep my eyes open :)

Answer 1

It is highschool. I have the same problem. Most guys at my school want blonde preepy girls, some are really are not that pretty, who cake makeup on their faces. I have a good personality (which last longer than looks) and I average looking maybe a 6 or 7. I am just not a s*** like some of them. Sure you will find someone. just be happy it is not now, high school boys are jerks.

Answer 2

Honestly, you can get a boyfriend, but you won't get the one you deserve.

Girls with extra weight get the leftovers because guys prefer thinner girls. It is superficial but it is the nature of biology.

I was overweight in highschool. Not terribly, but just enough to never get noticed by the cute guy. Or the guys would say: you are so cute, just if you watched your weight more. The list goes on.

I could lie to you. But the facts are pretty darn clear and you can see it as much as me.

Here is the solution.
1. Don't think it means forever. You will find the right guy one day.
2. Focus on why you have a weight problem. Don't share it with the world. Don't feel sorry for yourself. Just problem solve.
3. Lots of people have weight problems. However, if you learn to manage it now...the problem will be under control by the time you really need to hook a guy.
4. It is so true that you don't have to be as smart or have as much personality if you look hot. Recognize that you will have the advantage one day.
5. Get yourself in shape. It will be the proudest thing you have ever done and you will get the hot guys too.
6. Believe me, you don't have to be perfect or skinny to get a good guy, you just need to have the problem under control.
7. Your problem isn't your weight by the way. Figure out what the issue is and the emotional burden and weight associated with it will disappear.

I was chunky. It made me very insecure as I grew up. One day I just said I am going to get this under control. It isn't about dieting. It is about making yourself strong.

So change what you have to change....and guess what, you will have more than one guy that wants you. You will have your pick in the barrel. Afterall, who just wants a guy? You want the guy that you want! Don't settle. And you will find the guy that doesn't mind the goals that you set for yourself.

Answer 3

Sure fat girls can get boyfriends, see it all the time. But the harsh truth is that.....drum roll.....size kinda does matter......and looks are kinda important. Take a piece of chocolate cake and smush it up.....it's still a yummy piece of chocolate cake but alot of people would rather have the piece of cake that looks nice. I dunno why, I'd eat both and ask for thirds but that's just the way human nature is. Not trying to get you down...just being honest. 230 is a little much but in my opinion....190 or 200 is just right. And 30 pounds doesn't take a lifetime to lose.

Answer 4

I am what guys call thick. And I have never had any problems threw out my life getting a man. I don't think its all weight that guys look at...Do you have self respect? Self esteem? Are you confident? Do you feel beautiful? Most guys in high school are to worried about what their friends are going to say to really date someone they truly care about....You will find your guy just keep your head up and remember your beautiful and make people see that!

Answer 5

I know for a fact you can get a guy, my bestfriend is a 100 lbs bigger than me(and of course she is just beautiful) and she has had more boyfriends than me mainly because I'm way too picky about who I go out with but I have to honestly say most of her boyfriends were pretty cute, except for a couple they were rude and ugly and that is a bad combonation to have in a guy...I know. I weigh158, by the way.

Answer 6

I wonder the same thing girl... but I will give you some other advice concerning guys.

Don't let anyone bring you down.
Don't settle for a loser just to have a boyfriend.
Don't change yourself for anyone else... you have to do it for yourself otherwise you'll end up back where you started.
If you are with someone and he doesn't appreciate you, doesn't respect you, tries to make you do something you don't want to do, etc, leave him... staying with someone like that only hurts you in the end. Even though it may hurt initially to break up with him, you'll be better off.

Answer 7

yes a fat girl can get a man as long as she keep her self up and have a reall good personality she's bound to have a boy friend.
oh yeah if you're looking for a boy friend stop let it happen by u contemplating on getting a boyfriend its not going to happen just stay focused on your school work and when ever the time comes around for a boy friend you will know I MEAN YOU WILL KNOW!!!! just be patient

Answer 8

YES!! you just have to wait for a guy with a big heart. It may take you longer than others, but you are better than most of those skinny girls anyways.

Answer 9

yes, am fat like you and I found a man who loves me to death when i was 21 yrs old. He does not care about my body but only about my personality. He loves me unconditionally and never does anything that i dont like! So you just hang on my girl...you WILL find TRUE love that will last forever.

Answer 10

Girl please......yes us fat chicks (me included) can get boyfriends...i weigh 263 3/4 and i have no problems getting a guy why???....because i'm confident about myself and who i am...be more outgoing..make your presence known and you'll get a guy soon enough. Guys tend to back away from shy girls.