He wants to pay me money under the table to have a sexual relationship with him. The more involved (meaning the more explicit I get, the more money he will give me. What do I say without being rude or making him feel uncomfortable around me because I need the money but don't want any problems at work?
2006-11-06 09:06:52 · 20 answers · asked by Kendra J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him exactly that--tell him you'll do it, but you don't want any complications to come from it.
2006-11-06 09:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there's a better thing to do... get evidence of sexual harassment...then put him on court and ask for a big *** money compensation and so you will be rich without having sex with him.
But there is the other choice case everything goes wrong or you can't get any evidence... do it and gain the cash you need...
2006-11-06 17:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is funny and then let him know that if he's not he's making you feel uncomfortable. This way he he has a chance to back out with a joke. Or report his but for sexual harassment....get evidence too.
2006-11-06 17:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say pro-stit-u-tion? That's what you call sex for pay and as such, is not a circumstance in your favor! Instead, get details of his proposition in writing. Maybe he'll even be stupid enough to sign it! Refuse it, then turn the bum in to the authorities. That's called sexual harassment, Hon.
2006-11-06 17:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry but i am in a relationship, no hard feelings or make something up like that, or maybe find a new job you can get money from that, you can do without your boss asking you things like that!
2006-11-06 17:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by .Baby.Boy.On.The.Way. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be quite honest, I'm not sure what you're asking. If my boss gave me that proposition, I'd say thanks but no thanks. But you said you need the money but don't want problems at work? Huh? How can that end any other way except riddled with problems? Sex for money = prostitution.
2006-11-06 17:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write up an agreement on company letterhead stating how much and when you get paid, what you need to do for an agreed amount,and there is an agreed buy out amount paid to you for him to end the arrangement.Make sure he signs it in writing, and below signature he prints his name and dates it.
2006-11-06 17:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by tjdepere2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be concerned about his feelings, hes the jerk who is doing wrong. Tell him no very firmly. If he continues report him to a higher up or the police for sexual harrasment
2006-11-06 17:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Document every conversation you have ever had!!!!! Tell him you are really not interested and would appreciate him not making any more propositions.If that doesn't work sue him for sexual harrassment.
2006-11-06 17:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a great mind set you have. You should just do it and take the money. At this point you are thinking of it and you are probably going to do it.
2006-11-06 17:10:07 · answer #10 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
The ladies on the street corners get paid for sex too
2006-11-06 17:09:46 · answer #11 · answered by Pauline 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋