my dad left when I was 2 and all of a sudden he came back when I was 12 and I had a little sister I didn't know about and 2 new step sisters but last year my 14th b-day he bought my brother 200 dollars worth of stuff and didnt by me nothing! and this year he didnt even say happy birthday! and on mothers day he told me that he dis owned me because I was goin to a dance with a black guy!! so now I cant even see my little sister and I cant take it no more!!
2006-11-06 09:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by daised and confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get over it! Ignore him and dont let him be an excuse for screwing up.
Sometimes it is better to have no father then an ignorant as** for one.
Be strong, be smart and disregard him.
2006-11-06 09:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feeling of abandonment is not a good feel-in but if you can understand that the problem he has is not based on you not at all !!!!!!!sorry this person has issues Let it go and another door will open . Let the heavenly Father supply your needs and what's . And that's a good thing you can't go wrong there there is no rejection there, only love.
2006-11-06 09:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Rhonda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, this sounds harsh... but he is not considered a real father. A father is supposed to love his children equally, treat them equally and only punish if they have done something immoral. Live with your mother and keep him out of your life till he is ready to be a real dad. ALso, I reccomend conseling.
2006-11-06 09:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your dad is just and a** and I hate you cant see your sister but I would try calling or meeting them in a public place
2006-11-06 09:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by crissykay1321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blood is thicker than water, dad is always right or wrong gonna be your dad things can get better but not if you do things to defile yourself in his eyes he made his mistakes you dont have to do the same. he is just as hurt
2006-11-06 09:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by msocmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey i feel ur pain please see a consuler and if ur siblings cared and heard ur thoughts im sure they would be there with u t back u up. That's bad that he is a racisim kind of person i may be white but that is not right
2006-11-06 09:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by *StarFashion* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for u. I dont believe any one has the right to judge another.
2006-11-06 09:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so harsh and racial.Thats terrible.You still got your mom,you lived withouot him for 10 years you can do it again
2006-11-06 09:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by elain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad need to get a life and stop hatin'
2006-11-06 09:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops and tell them
2006-11-06 09:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by mrpwoodsvt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋