I love him.
He told me he can't love me, because if he loves me he will just hurt me more.
His best friend told me he is moving....so that's why.
He told his best friend that he doesn't want to talk to me because he would just fall deeper in love with me.
He's younger than me. I'm a sophmore i high school and he's a freshman. But I love him.
Is it wrong to love a younger guy?
What is he thinking?
And what do I do?
2006-11-06 09:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably afraid to get into a serious relationship being younger. It is not wrong being in love with a younger guy. If you love him, you love him! What can you do!?. You cannot help on who you love. Love just happens!!! A few years ago I cared for a younger guy and he cared for me as well. But it just did not work out for me. He lived 2 to 3 hours away from me. And I could not take it anymore with the long distance relationship it hurt me not being able to see him. But him and I are still friends'till this day. Good luck sweetie!! Best wishes!!
2006-11-06 09:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by NATASHA W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could say so much about high school love....... but I won't I don't want to sound like my mom.
Here is the deal with dating younger I personally believe that women mature faster then men. Later down the line I believe that you will have problems because you will want more than he can give you, and while he is still trying to be a kid you are trying to grow up and move on.If you really want to try to make the relationship work you might have to make him grow up quicker than he wants to. That can be a problem!
Please be careful you only came with one heart. A friend once told me your feelings are like a pie if you keep giving away slices you will end up with none for yourself! Especially if he doesn't give you any of his slices!
2006-11-06 17:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by MWieger_SU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to love a guy younger than you. He probably is thinking that if he moves it will probably hurt you cause you won't see him and that he is really in love with you but he probably doesn't know how you two will see each other. You could try to talk with him and maybe see if you resolve something.
2006-11-06 17:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take about five more years of life and experience to ripen your ungoverned emotions. You shouldn't even be worried about love right now. Concentrate on your grades, having good friends, and preparing for your future. because the odds are (and I have a $100.00) I will win and this guy will be a blip on the radar of life.
2006-11-06 17:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we can control who we fall in love with, I believe we meet people and some how we get connected and either we go deeper with our emotions or we walk away. I think it is possible that he doesn't want to hurt you, and he could also be afraid, try again to make a connection with him just to clarify things.
2006-11-06 17:04:57 · answer #5 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not limit on age in "love". I think hes just soo much in love with you as you love him but he wants to let go because he probably doesnt think long distance relationships are going to work. maybe you guys should have a long chat and let your feelings out and find a solution
2006-11-06 17:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was brought up to respect women. He's sensitive and caring. You have a choice tell him you love no matter what, or let him go. IMHO let him you're young and there'll be other guys just be yourself.
2006-11-06 17:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by brayglenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are talking a year difference, it's not that bad. he probably doesn't want to hurt anymore than he already will when he leaves. he's probably trying to make his move easier by staying away from you so neither of you will hurt as much, even though it hurts just as much.
2006-11-06 17:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a sophomore in highschool!!!!! guys mature slower than girls and he is a freshman!!! and you think he loves you or even understands what love is???
i will tell you that love is NOT butterflies in your stomache. love is NOT eating lunch together and getting along for a half hour....
2006-11-06 17:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not wrong to love him...but I think you love what you can't have.
2006-11-06 17:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋