with my last three boyfriends after the first few days i have doubts about them and think about breaking up with them but if i wait for about another week i really start to like them again and realize how important they are to me...why do i always think about breaking up with at the so quickly??
2006-11-06 08:57:43 · 2 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're young and not quite ready to date. Sounds to me like you date these guys simply b/c they ask you, but you aren't really interested. I don't know if your friends around you are dating or what and you feel pressure to have a boyfriend. But I say wait until you know what kind of guy you want before you get with someone else. Its not a big deal if you don't have a boyfriend right now.
2006-11-06 09:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have issues with commitment. or it's what i use to do. i use to want to have a bf so bad that whenever a guy revealed to me that he liked me, i would automatically start liking him. but when we were actually in a relationship, i lost interest...fast. the idea of having a bf can be so illusive for some people but once you have one, you never realized how much effort and commitment you have to put into the relationship.
and about the part liking them after wanting to break up with them...i've felt that way about my bf numerous times. it's just a normal part of the early stages of a relationship. once you really get to know the other person, then you can make that decision to break up with them or to stay together.
2006-11-06 17:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by thebodyelectric! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋