I started going out with this guy who has a kid with another girl. After not seeing his kid since he was born, she came back and he left me for her in february. Then he came back two days later and decided he made a mistake. But it happened again, and he said its because i said i don't trust him. We had an apartment together and he was never home but he was always with her. And he used the kid as an excuse. So he broke up with me because of this little trust issue and the very next day, they are ENGAGED! The problem is she kept leaving him for another guy who had an alcohol problem but he is going to rehab, so he thinks she's going to leave him when he comes back. He wants me to wait for him. But I don't want this to happen again and besides, I'm now 8 months pregnant. People say he still cares about me and i believe that, but not that much if he's trying to get married to her next month. We also work together. I don't know what to do. Should i give up on him?
2006-11-06 08:51:42 · 6 answers · asked by pikachu 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're 8 months pregnant, you shouldn't be wasting your time and energy stressing over him. obviously he wants to be with her, let him go. as long as his ex is unsure of who she wants, he's unsure of who he wants, you really don't need that. you can go on with life without him, ofcourse you don't want to raise your child alone, but if he goes back to her you're stuck being a single parent. you might as well be a happy single parent, focusing all your attention on being a wonderful mother, than being a stressed out mother who knows her relationship varies with the way he wind blows- one minute he's here, the next he's gone. that's never healthy for you or the child, the child didn't ask to come intot his world, so you shouldn't put the child through the pain and drama of wondering, when is daddy gonna leave again, is he here to stay this time. just ask god for guidance, he will give you the answers that you seek for others
2006-11-06 09:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you need to let him go. If hes just gonna keep switching back and forth between you and her hes not worth waiting for.
2006-11-06 17:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up
2006-11-06 16:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by whymewhynow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i think you should give up on him. just worry about your self and your baby.
i wish you the best. good luck
2006-11-06 17:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the hormones. he has moved on, and you should too. but he needs to be there for the child.
2006-11-06 16:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, i would forget about him. There is someone else better for you!
2006-11-06 16:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋