2006-11-06 08:45:08 · 42 answers · asked by nita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope! If I can't keep them with my looks, money, and how I treat them then I'm moving on to the next lucky women that wants me for being me.
2006-11-06 08:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Texan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't want to get pregent just to keep a guy, guys come and go but a baby is for life.
2006-11-06 09:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by raven s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting pregnant to keep someone, when a relationship is already on the outs, will just make for a single parent latter. It's not a good idea, just work on the relationship then have a baby. Trust me when I saw a baby adds stress to even the perfect relationship.
2006-11-06 08:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way!!!!!!!!!! First of all if you get pregnant it won't garentee that this person will stay with you. (ever watch the Maury show?) It is also not right because you can't just force someone to be with you. If they do stay they will probabley stay for the baby not for the love of you. And third if you do have a child and the father is gone that baby will suffer. They will be so troubled so that will be healthy for you and the baby.
2006-11-06 08:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by The REBELution! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never works.....don't even think about doing it. I had a friend who thought that way and guess what, now she has a baby and she is all alone to take care of him. If a relationship isn't working already, then a baby will only make it worse. A baby adds so much stress to a relationship.
2006-11-06 08:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by heaven o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!!!~ That is the dumbest thing a person could possibly do. A baby shouldn't be a way to trap someone, it should be a blessing that both of you want to share.
Why would you have to trap someone like that. If they don't want to be with you MOVE ON!
2006-11-06 08:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you do this you are making a big mistake. You should be with someone because you love them, not because they have your kid. I've seen it happen before and it never works out.
If you are worried about a relationship, let them go and find someone better. You will be much happier. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 08:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO!!!! Why would you want to trap someone? Why be with someone who doesn't want you like that? You are adding another life to the equation that is not their choice. It wouldn't be fair for the baby to have to hear what will end up be fighting.
2006-11-06 08:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is shallow and demeaning. What about the baby? If your stooping to such low levels to keep someone, who is going to care for the baby that comes out of this??
2006-11-06 08:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. Would you want to know that your mom didn't really want you, but was trying to keep your dad and she had you for that reason and that reason only. Then, there is your answer, and it doesn't always work. Plus, wouldn't that suck to know he is sticking around for the baby and not you? Don't sell yourself short.
2006-11-06 08:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋