if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it
2006-11-06 08:41:21 · 9 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It looks like it is all here in black and white! Sorry but you should really consider moving on before you really get hurt. Your girlfriend is spending too much time in the past it sounds to me that she still is in love with her ex. Sometimes when I am uncertain with things in my relationship I flip it around, so let's see how do you think she would feel if you were e-mailing, calling, etc. an ex? I'm sorry to say but this doesn't sound good, for the sake of your own conscience talk to her and see what she has to say. Watch for defensive behavior, lying, and changing the subject. Good luck.
2006-11-06 08:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by livlovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing its ok for this girl to call an ex every couple weeks. Now its not a good idea for girls to act happy on the outside and be torn up inside. It will do nothing to help any situation. all i can say after that is she might have at least listened to this guy to see what he has to say, oh and breaking up for no reason is childish. i should know ive been there. if he doesn't answer her soon then i think she should let him be no matter how much it hurts her inside. she should just enjoy who she has now and live her life. Im sorry if it doesn't work out sometimes it don'tbut ive been there before.
2006-11-06 08:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by energizer_91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? you asked that question a few days ago! or at least someone with the same speech as you... come on man...i told you once and i will tell you twice DUMP HER!
2006-11-06 08:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read it. It looks like you already know that she wants her boyfriend back for you to write that much...Now that I've read it I think you posted this question a few weeks ago...Scratch that "days ago." I just checked my answers.
2006-11-06 08:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
maybe she just wants to know
if his heart broken really!
he seems heart broken to me
2006-11-06 08:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should figure this out for yourself
2006-11-06 08:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by x_hammurabi_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like shes over him.
2006-11-06 08:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
lol
lol
my pet bird has more brains than you
2006-11-06 09:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of her.. there is no way i would take that from my b/f
2006-11-06 08:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissthang025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋