I am thinking about getting a ring and everything and asking him to marry me near or on christmas, how exactly should i do it?
he calls me his wife all the time, says that we are already married in his mind. I want him to know i am ready to be his wife, but i want to ask him this....how exactly should i go about it???
Let me know ppl
2006-11-06 08:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for all the ignorant ppl....just look at the question and keep on going...i want serious answers. Thank you *smiling sweetly*
2006-11-06 08:44:00 · update #1
For everyone who is giving me advice, thank you so so so much...i r eally appreciate it.
2006-11-06 08:47:15 · update #2
I DONT WANT HIM TO PROPOSE TO ME!!!! I WANT TO JUST PROPOSE TO HIM!!! NOT BECUZ HE HASNT ASKED ME, BUT CUZ I WANT TO MARRY HIM!!!
STUPID PPL!!! I WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HIM
2006-11-06 08:49:35 · update #3
I know that I would have no problrm with a girl asking me to marry her, but I wonder about the ring. Is it for you or for him. Is there such thing as an engagement ring for a guy? I strongly encourage you to take the step of asking him to marry you,. It will be a great story to tell your kids. As far as the manner in which to do it, I would recommend doing it during a private, romantic moment immediately before Christmas. That way when you see your relatives, you can relate the good news. Good luck!
2006-11-06 08:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tbone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think you should ask him to marry you yet. You grab him by his balls and drag him into a quiet room and smack him hard. Then ask him what he's waiting for. It's alot of pressure for a guy to be hassled by his girl to get married. It's a big commitment that takes a long of time to come to turns with. Another big issue is his financial status maybe he's scared he can't support you or vice-versa. Is he still in school? That's another factor that comes into play. Men want to be on their feet and stable before they make the biggest change of the rest of their lives. If it's been like 5 years and he's making the "mad-phat" cash and has is own home, car, career etc. Talk to him.
This can all be disregarded if he's just a sissy. Then ask him.
2006-11-06 16:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well... it's usually the guys job to ask the girl to marry him but, hey the world is changing after all, Just ask, if he is already saying that you're his wife to everybody then he wouldn't have a problem actually making it true. So I say...Go For It! Goodluck!
(Honey? Will you marry me?) Good way to go about it I think...well it works in the movies anyhow.
2006-11-06 16:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he wants to marry you then he will propose to you. i dont think its a womans job to do that. it makes you look a little desperate. if he wants to marry you he will bring it up. what if you propose and he says no?
2006-11-06 17:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is the 21rst century. Do I think you should pop the question? YES!! Go for it! Good Luck.
2006-11-06 16:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please go and read "Why Men Marry Bitches" by Sherry Argov. It will tell you exactly why you should NOT propose to your man.
2006-11-06 16:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by RoMa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should ask him,and if he says no I`ll marry you!
2006-11-06 16:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by oldjr 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should wait...and HE will ask you to marry him, i think it's better...or just try to talk to him and ask him wy doesn't he propose to you...
2006-11-06 16:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Valencianista 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should cut off his balls and give them to him for christmas too. when he wants to get married he will ask you.
2006-11-06 16:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by texan1186 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
dump him if he doesn't propose
2006-11-06 16:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by bigfatfrank1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋