We are living down here in Birmingham, AL while my husband is still in college. He stayed gone for hours everyday. Eventually he stopped coming home when the water heater quit working, the bills had to be payed and Matt was born. So I got worried and kept calling his cell phone and for days he didn't answer.
Turns out that he has been sleeping with Becky down the street and we have only been married for 4 years! He has 2 kids, a wife and a home that he cheated. Our daughter Elaine is now in nursery school. I am working 2 jobs and making barely enough. Now I have to take care of it all by myself.
We are getting divorced if we can't get marriage counciling. I mean, was he just not satisfied with our marriage? Did I not give John enough sex? Why would men do something like this? How could they sleep at night knowing that what they are doing is wrong?
2006-11-06 08:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by Brianna W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don’t go blaming yourself for this. A man who cheats will cheat no matter how often his wife has sex with him and no matter what you did differently. If you can’t work it out through marriage counseling he will cheat on the next woman he marries. Go to the court system and make him help pay the bills that he helped you create. Also make him pay child support and if you are told you have to wait for the divorce then ask them to make him pay for supporting the children until then. Take a lesson from this and be more careful the next time you start dating. Find a man that is doing the right things. That means not finding one at a bar or some other place that promotes bad behavior. I wish you the best of luck and maybe a counselor will be able to help you but if not then take action and don’t let him get away scott free. ♠
2006-11-06 17:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by # one 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's in all probability attempting to proportion with you the way proud he's for being committed. regardless of while you're conscious of it or no longer after 30 years of marriage, he feels very fortunate to nevertheless have you ever via his side as his spouse. Unfortuantely, it takes some persons this long to attain how great of a woman we've via our side! In a suttle form of way, your husband is laying off mild on how undesirable your previous could have been had he cheated in an attempt in the direction of making your destiny at the same time alot brighter. choose you 2 the main suitable.
2016-10-15 11:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by brasseaux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry that happened to you, i hope you find someone later in life that treats you the way you disserve to be treated and makes you happier than you have ever been in your life.. and i hope john burns in hell
2006-11-06 17:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋