Why is that you say that personality is more important than looks yet all I ever hear girls talk about is "that hot guy" or I only see girls approach the "hot guys" in public? Sounds to me like youre just trying to make us not-so-hot guys just feel better, like we actually have a chance when in reality, we dont.
2006-11-06 07:53:25 · 13 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right dude. DAMN THOSE HOT GUYS!!! Making me feel all unimportant and ****.
2006-11-06 07:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's hard to tell what kinda personality a guy has by watching him walk bye. So girls, like guys, tend to comment on what is physically appealing first. It's only after you talk to the person, "hot" or just attractive, that you find out what they are really like. It's like I've always been told sometimes the best looking people can be real snobs and dead-heads, and some of the people who are just "ok" looking are some of the greatest people you'll ever want to hang around. It's only after getting to know someone that you can truly make a decision about that person...if it's just for looks that will eventually get old....just remember even a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader will go grey and loose her "pom-pom" to gravity one day...would you love her less or did you take the time to get to know her so you now really do love her liverspots and all HA HA HA. Just a thought.
2006-11-06 16:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by ncgville 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be some physical attraction to begin with (unless you meet someone online or only have ever talked on the phone)...when we (men and women) see someone at a distance...the only thing we have to go on is VISUAL.....but OVERALL personality IS more important. The guy could be the hottest, sexiest thing on the planet, but if the personality isn't there, a girl will dump him in a heartbeat.
2006-11-06 15:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing we notice about a guy is how he looks, same with guys saying that a girl is hot. Just because someone is hot doesn't mean that we'll like them. That's why personality is important. That's what makes me like someone weather you are hot or not.
2006-11-06 15:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by harpersr10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing is.... to GIRLS looks are important. To WOMEN, there are lots more things we need to get us going. Personality is a rubbish term. A young guy can be good lookin and a girl will like him, his father is far more likely to be sexy and sensual and stimulating and challenging.. therefore appealing to women!
If I were you I would look around at the guys, young and old who are not so good looking but still get the girls. Try and identify which of there attributes you come close to and work on those.
2006-11-06 16:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sluttty McSluttt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is more important. It just takes longer. It's way easier to be immediately attracted to someone because of their looks. It takes more work to get to know someone and their personality. If it makes you feel any better, I would never date most of the "hot" guys I know because most of them are just dumb. I mean they're fun and pretty good friends but not worth dating.
2006-11-06 15:58:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality should be first, but looks don't hurt.
If you like the way a guy looks then see what he is like (Personality).
Even the Bible says that,
Chrame is deseful,
(how well you are attracted to some one)
and beauty is passing,
(that guy wont look like that forever)
So, the only thing that stays the same is some ones Personality.
Good Luck!!!
2006-11-06 16:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Preacher's Daughter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks is what attracts people to each other = attraction. And you are saying "in public". But they (hopefully) won't end up dating "that hot guy" at the mall if he has no personality! If I wasn't in public, let's say one of my good friends friends, and we got to know each other... if he wasn't super attractive at first, his personality definitely gives him a chance with me.
2006-11-06 15:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by EcsaNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DEFINITELY HAVE A CHANCE. THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE. BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP. ITS WHATS IN THE HEART THAT COUNT. USUALLY WHEN A FEMALE TALK ABOUT HOW HOT A GUY LOOK AND THAT THEY WANT HIM, THAT SO CALLED HOT GUY WOULDN'T GIVE THEM A SECOND THOUGHT.
2006-11-06 15:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not so hot guys do have a good chance.. my ex boyfriend wasnt good look.. trust me.. ppl would laugh wen we told them we're a couple.. not bragging but im quite good to look at.. n he was nowhere close to being good looking.. but we used to b best friends n then he kind of started liking me n so did i.. n i never let that thing ruin anything for us.. i never dumped him or rejected him for that.. so u c..looks r not all that that really matter.. there must b understanding,care,devotion,respect,honesty n loyalty for a relationship... but yeah for a short fling.. u need to b hot!
2006-11-06 15:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by ankita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just eye-candy....we need somebody to hold a conversation with, and somebody to make us laugh. But yes being a hot guy will help you out some.
2006-11-06 15:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋