Many people told me that sex is just like food and water...
Some of my girlfriends told me... they did not begin loving their boyfriend... until they slept with them...
So is it true???
Give me ur honest opinion...
2006-11-06 07:52:29 · 20 answers · asked by Jimmy the Cricket 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A healthy sexual relationship is a must in a relationship, it is what brings 2 people together that no other way does, it also relieves stress for both parties, and can also just be great fun, there are different ways that sex impact a partnership. Sometimes the intense, I need only you in my life, the sharing. And watch this, sometimes when things get 'testy' between 2, a lot of the time it's because they have neglected that part of the relationship, that's the stress breaker, and it opens doors to talk. And the just plain fun? That's when both parties are not looking for a soul matching moment, the 'core of them' it's when one of you just sneaks up on the other, just to enjoy! Without sex / love making a relationship starts to build walls, feelings are hurt, doubts start to creep in, and not only men cheat! It's healthy, very important, and really great ;) As for not falling in love until after?? Well that's not always true. My hubby and I knew each other for sometime, enjoyed each others company, and loved spending time together. We had a sexual relationship for a few months before the L word came out, and it was great, and a moment I'll never forget, and one my hubby still asks remember when?? So I guess that could go either way, but don't mistake great sex and good times for 'falling in love' there are too many other things that play into a good relationship.
2006-11-06 08:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by JazzyLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow older together it is a necessity, i dont think majority of girls like an unexperienced guy, if you have a girl who hasnt done it yet and its your first time as well, then its ok but when the girl is more experienced than the guy, its bit away. Sex is just a new feeling and it is more special when you do it with someone that you love and have been in relationship with...so in long term relationship it is essential, but the best way to know is to talk about it openly with the girl, dont be shy!
2006-11-06 08:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about not loving until they had sex, bc you have to have something for the person in order to WANT to have sex. At least for me. I do, so agree, that sex is a BIG must in a relationship. Sex, isn't just sex, it is showing the person you love them, want to fulfill their needs, and it is a comfortable need. When I am stressed or had a bad day, nothing relieves my nerves more then a good session. I love to dress up in lingerie for my husband. He loves it too. It is fun, and necessary. I believe if you have an open mind with your partner, the skies the limit on your pleasure.
2006-11-06 07:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the culmination of deep and true love between two people.
Those who tell you that sex is like food and drink are terribly wrong. It is unethical to use another person's body for your own pleasure unless there is an agreement of love between the two people.
Some people who are attracted to each other have sex without loving each other. Just to have sex.
But I do not recommend that. First you must have true feelings of love for another person. Then, you must understand what their needs are. Never take advantage of another person for sex. That's bad karma.
2006-11-06 08:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by Paulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by brasseaux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the people and how much they respect eachother's decision of abstinence or nonabstinence.That is not the only thing in a relationship though. Some of the things they said in health wasn't all lies. When you start doing it does it become the main thing you do when your together? Do you guys talk at all, like on an intellectual level? Do you really know her? Focus on the relationship not......doing it.
2006-11-06 08:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex is an important part of a relationship, but not THE most important part. I don't think sex has anything to do with love. When you love someone it is them as a person, their personality etc. that you fall in love with.
2006-11-06 07:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can either make or break a realtionship-----some woman get more clingy after being intimate with thier partner-----also people stop trusting thier partners after sex---proven in several studies----both males and females are insecure in that area and they start to wonder if the other is cheating on them or they get bored of them and cheat------wait till you are married or in a comitted realationship before becomeing intimite-----trust the other person fully with your heart and you will know when it is right-----my opinion
good luck with your relationships in the future
2006-11-06 07:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok my honest opinion is, those girls who told you that are pretty much sluts. They don't know what a true relationship is. I don't think sex is a MUST unless you want a family. If they really didn't love their boyfriend until they slept with them, they didn't really like them, honestly. :)
2006-11-06 07:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it is NOT true, love comes before sex. If sex comes before love, then it is just a contact sport between two individuals of the opposite sex.
2006-11-06 07:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋