Say you met me at a local club, and we clicked. We both were attracted to eachother, but I have a kid. Would you date me? Why or why not? This goes for both guys and girls.... but vice versa.
2006-11-06 07:51:29 · 29 answers · asked by Destinee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I said vice versa, I meant if a girl met a guy that has a kid(s) would you date him? Or if a guy met a girl that had kid(s) would you consider dating?
2006-11-06 08:56:25 · update #1
If we clicked and were attracted to each other of course I would date you. I dont think we should mess with your childs head by my meetting them early on, nor would I allow you to meet my son until I knew where we were wit hthings. it makes things easier on the children if they arent bonding to people and watching them leave a bunch.
2006-11-06 07:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there was an attraction with each other I would follow up with a phone call and talk with him and tell him you have a kid at that point. The guy could decide whether or not to pursue this any further. Some guys have date woman with kids as along as the guy is cool with it. Bottom line if the guy likes you he needs to be aware of the package deal. Allot of Mon's don't like bring new guys around there kids so keep that in mind.
2006-11-06 16:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would date you I too like kids what turns me off more than anything know it's kids that ruled the parents instead of the parents rule in the kids
2006-11-06 15:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I WOULD, but why are you in the club when you should be with your kid? Not to imply you do that 24/7 but thats not the best place to meet a man who is ready for the role of father figure and family guy.
2006-11-06 15:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I am in the same relationship like yours. I found the woman of my dreams in a bar. She has two kids and I am now GLADLY stepping up to the plate to take on the father role. To let you know....I have no kids of my own.
2006-11-06 15:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by larry h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because you have a kid. But its because I'm 22 and I don't feel like I'm mature or responsible enough to date a person with a kid.
I'm just giving you an honest answer.
2006-11-06 15:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I have never and will never date anyone with a kid that's not my kid and everyone has kids so if I wasn't dating my bf I would be single forever I guess. I think I would probabally think differentlly if I had kids and was dating, then I wouldn't care.
2006-11-06 15:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by hot like me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a kid. Stay out of clubs & focus on raising your kid. You'll never meet a decent guy at a club. I would date a single mom, just not one who hung out at clubs.
2006-11-06 15:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by My 2 Cents 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a thing that happens to lots of couples but when after a while the attraction fades and the usual argument will show its head by accusing you of been around the houses then its all downhill from there
2006-11-06 15:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your child? Yes= Yes, I would. No= No, I wouldn't. I dumped a girl once for lying to me about having a little boy...who would want a person like that to be the (possible) mother of their children....and if its just casual dating, what diff. does it make?
2006-11-06 15:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by geehaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋