My friend has been going out with this guy for a month or two and has gone out with him before.
He is gonna dump her when he gets the nerve to but i am torn cos i reeeeeeaaaaalllly like this guy and he seems to like me too but i dont wanna lose my friend! Please help cos i really wanna keep them both!
2006-11-06 07:41:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But this guy is gonna dump her cos she kept hanging around and flirting with this other guy so it aint his fault
2006-11-06 07:49:20 · update #1
Also she hardly shows him any love back and he is openly being romantic and affectionate yet she says and does nothing
2006-11-06 07:51:25 · update #2
Also if anyone says leave this guy alone plz understand that i cant as he is also a friend of mine and my other friends!
2006-11-06 07:59:28 · update #3
The only way around this is to talk to your friend and ask her how she feels about you dating him. More then likely she isn't going to be ready to accept that. My cousin dated a guy I dated for a year, even though we were broken up and I was married with a child, it still bother me to think of them together. So more then likely you will have to pick one or the other depending on how this girl feels about it. Good luck.
2006-11-06 07:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them both as friends. Do not even attemp to go after this guy because if you do you will lose your friend, this is because she will start thinking that you and he were secretly plotting behind her back. So if I were you I'd just be there for my friend, when and if she does get dumped.And eventhough you do like this guy stay clear. Besides which its the code among girls that you can never date a friends ex.
2006-11-06 07:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky
this is like whats happenin 2 me.i have been out with a guy 3 times and done all the dumping (I am an idiot) and the asking (i am an idiot x2) and now i have fallen for him again, we are really good friends (believe it or not) i really love him, but nobody knows, not even him, not even my veryveryvery best friend. the trouble is i think he likes me but a friend (not best friend) who used to like him, but doesnt now is getting txts off him saying he likes her, i dont know if i'm coming or going right now so i am going to tell him tomorrow when i see him. i am a bit in your position but i have a chance to make a move tomorrow, i will take it because I really really love him. you should let it run its course and comfort your friend when the time comes when he dumps her. its not fair if you intervenene because you like this guy a lot plus if you tell your friend the guy will probably never talk to you again. DONT DO ANYTHING. after this time, tell your friend you didnt want to intervene because you like him and it would not be fair, then ask her to understand if you want to go out with this guy. if she doesnt understand and is really upset, she is your friend, she should respect your feelings. if shes ok about it, fine, good for you. BUT THERES MORE. if he is the type to dump girls like this, think again before going out with him. if you are convinced he is 'the one', go for it. if not, dont bother.
if before when they went out, she did the dumping, he probably has a reason to dump herbecause he gave her a second chance in the first place.
if he did the dumping he sounds like a nasty piece of work, dumping twice.(but i cant talk, i dumped 3 times) and if he takes dumping this casiallt, thing again
2006-11-06 07:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a difficult one. I would wait for a while, it depends how much she liked him if she was "madly in love" kind of situation its even worse, it happened between two of my friends and they no longer talk. Try and assess the situation to see if hes going to be worth it, you may loose a friend but sometimes thats how these things work out. Good luck
2006-11-06 07:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by herbal ashtray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the tough question really is if you do ask him out and he doesn't really like you will your friend still want to be friends and you could end up loosing it all and you should talk to your friend about how they feel before jumping into a relationship with this guy
2006-11-06 07:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by scott C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even think about it. Sounds like your friend cares about this guy, so you'd be letting her down so bad. Blokes come and go but real friends are for life!
2006-11-06 07:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, friends are worth much more than that,if he dont wana be with her and hasnt got the bottle to finish with her he could well do the same to you then the chances are you would have lost him and a mate.
2006-11-06 07:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by salamanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! Awkwardest subject ever yet i might wait and spot if something went extra with your dad's lady pal and your dad. i'm no longer asserting no longer get closer with your dad's lady pal's son yet do no longer attempt to get too a lot into him. desire I helped!
2016-10-15 11:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by brasseaux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it, i know it sounds really non friend like, but i got this rule of thumb, how do i know she ain't a b***h she might just be doing it to hurt me, but be careful you don't want him to think things about you. and when she finds out girl talk. take my advice you really don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering, it causes bags and all sorts of dreams and you really can't think straight and it's hell trying to link up afterwards, trust me I've been there. if you re the sort who has to know go for it, you will sleep better for it and just shrug of the spittle and tell them you got selfish over night, maybe nobody would hate you for it but just think of yourself and look after yourself, personally i don't leave that done to no-one but me, i know its gonna get done, simple.
2006-11-06 08:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep away from him,if you go with him you will lose your girlfriend and then when hes had enough of you and dumps you ,who will you turn to then.
2006-11-06 07:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋