To find a girlfriend, if u see someone u like at the shop,train, bus station,etc what should u do (sequence)?

Question

What do you do after that first ice breaker, whether a question or a funny comment or whatever, what do you do next?

I do the first move and it works some times and DO NOT know how to follow up?

I even got some tel. no.s but didn't take it on :(

As I don't want to find myself a girlfriend from a pub/nightclud.


ADVISE PLEASE

Answer 1

well, shop, train, bus station is a good as place as any. at the club, yeah... sometimes people are too desperate. either U come off desperate, or the girl does.

try joining some clubs or activities that will ensure that u have a common interest, and u will see them more than one time. for example, church, bible study group, exercise class, art class, etc etc. if u do ask for a girl's # , and she gives it to you, then call back in 2 days. ask her out for coffee....and try to be confident, relaxed, and comfortable. ask her questions and show that u are interested.. buy her coffee, and if u have a good time, ask her out to dinner. go out for like 3 dates, and if u want to get more serious, tell her u'd like to date her. if u don't like her, then either tell her u wanna be friends, or stop calling.... no more dates!

good luck~

Answer 2

Hide your wrist watch and ask her the time.

Pretend and tell her that you saw her once before with her boy friend somewhere.

If she says that she does not have a boy friend you say sorry and may be it was one of her brothers.

Ask if she studies or works and where.

Tell something about you while asking where she is from and not her address at once.

Stop with that much for the day and follow her another day but not on the following day.

If you see her for the second time pretend that you did not see her and observe her actions.

Another day you meet her and say hello.

Get involved in talks and you will by now feel what to do next to continue as love matures in you and her.

Get along!!! Good Luck!

Answer 3

First call her back. Just remind her of when/where you met. Then tell her why you called...you've been thinking about her, couldn't get her out of your head, whatever...then just talk to her. There is no "moves" no "formula" its just two people getting to know one another. You might not like this girl after you've spoken with her for five minutes! Ask her questions about herself; most folks love to talk about themselves. If it feels right, ask her out. Then go out with her...if you did the phone thing right, you'll have plenty to catch up on during your date. (p.s.- doesn't have to be on the phone, but you get the idea).

Answer 4

if you like some one you get there number and ask her out and if you don't hear from her then you move on to the next one there is some one for every one it just take time god will send you someone that's what I'm waiting for

Answer 5

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