im about 5'1 i am not fat but i have some meat on me! I have big boobies, and great legs but guys wont even glanze at me! i have olive skin, dark brown hair with highlights, but i dont know how to flirt, sometimes i feel like going up to guys but i am afraid of been humilated how can i flirt so guys could at least have a word or 2 with me!! i want 2 start dating again somehow theres seems to be no one interested in me!! Am i that ugly!! Can we girls be that horrible that guys wont even glanze at us!!!
2006-11-06 07:29:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have fun!!! geez...are you searching for your soulmate at a Club?!?!? There's better places to meet a soulmate....
And say Hello! The least they can do is say hello back...
2006-11-06 07:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well smile, act like your are interested in the guy and not scared and wave hi or say hi. Introduce yourself and ask a guy to dance. You have to be willing to be turned down sometimes, but you will never know until you try. Your body language tells a lot about you. If you are acting shy, standoffish, etc they might think you are married or with another guy or stuck up. Just relax and have fun. Maybe get a drink into you to help loosen you up a bit. I am not talking about getting drunk just a little more relaxed. Wear cute things that show off those parts of your body that you like and make you feel good.
2006-11-06 07:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look for a mate in the club. You may not get what you are looking for. Just be yourself. The RIGHT guy will notice. Everyone is not going to like you. Be selective like the guys are. You are worth it. And don't try to use your physical attributes as an attraction. What do you have past your body? Don't change the person they look at because you will have to keep that same fakeness throughout the relationship of whom ever you date.
Again just be yourself, you are beautiful and special in your own way and the guys needs to notice that and you will stand out form all the rest..
2006-11-06 07:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a real men will come up to you, and you won't find that in a club babe! Why are you worried about some guy in a club talking to you! You dont need them to let you know that you look good! always remeber that you are the sh** no matter what other people think of you! so what if you got meat on you, there is always sumbody out there that likes meat on the bones!
keep your head up!
2006-11-06 07:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by MYPHARRELL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clubs are just as good as classes as a way to get to know someone - actually better because you already have something in common. Just talk to him! Say hi to him in the hallway, wave at him, if you have a party invite him. It'll work.
2016-05-22 04:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem quiet and shy maybe the club isn't the best place to meet a guy, try somewhere else! Club guys are jerks anyways! Chances are the guy you want to talk to is scared and nervous too!
2006-11-06 07:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Born Country 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a simple trick.
Wear a low cut top, in a nude or light tan color. Wear white jeans, with a red thong, guy's love to see this through your pants.
It's hot, no matter what other girls say.
Wear red lip stick or hot pink.
2006-11-06 07:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU WANT ATTENTION OF PARTY ANIMALS? FOR A SOUL MATE? IF YOU JUST WANT ATTENTION AND NOT LOOKIN FOR ANYTHING DEEP, JUST TAKE UR FRIENDS AND HAVE FUN WITH THEM. THE MORE THEY SEE UR OUT ENJOYING URSELF, THEN THEY JOIN U FOR A DANCE. IF UR ON THE WALL, NO ONE WILL APPROCH U.
BUT FIND A PLACE LIKE A COFFEE SHOP TO MEET SOME DETERMINED GUYS WITH GOALS.
2006-11-06 07:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by csabrinam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont pay attention to them....thats the best way to get a guy to notice you or just talk to them u cant just look at them u either ignore or talk
2006-11-06 07:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes guys can be real jerks.....anyway about those legs of yours....any pics i can see? you might consider getting a bit looser in the clubs and do someone on the dance floor in front of everyone.
2006-11-06 07:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by ckhhuff2438 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋