was wondering how one can tell if my brothers dont like girls,,,, because they dont seem to care about me or that I am a female! They just hang around the house in there boxers and everything allways falls out,, also I saw my brother with another guy comparing things, and they dont know i saw, is this normal for 14 and 16 year olds or do they not like girls? and does that make a difference with them towards me?
2006-11-06 05:51:40 · 12 answers · asked by Karen D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
They probably don't care about you because you are their sister. It probably doesn't matter to them. This is normal because they are changing(and they're guys!). It might be awkward for them. They may like girls but they don't want to show it because sometimes they think it would make them seem weak.
2006-11-06 06:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a simple answer is 3 parts:
1) Teenage boys are perfectly "normal" in comparing their equipment. It may start when they're much younger, but in the teen years and even college years for those late bloomers it's not at all uncommon.
2) Whether a guy likes girls or not, you - as his sister - will probably never feel that he likes you. Again, I'm not condoning it, but it is standard practice for siblings to disagree and dislike each other. Have you ever seen the show, The Simpsons? Watch how Bart and Lisa treat each other - that's very common behavior.
3) It amuses me to no end that the first several replies you get on whether your brother is straight are from girls. These girls are telling you what it's like to be a teenage boy. I'm a bit confused as to how they can justify this knowledge. I'm a guy, 37 yeas old, I *very clearly* remember many of the things I did in high school. Some of those things are embarrassing to me now. Some may have looked rather gay - running around in the locker room at school without anything on, we would have wet towel fights (you know, twisting them up and trying to swat each other) while showering, sneaking peaks to see how we compare with the other guys... doesn't mean we like the guys, we're comparing.
And ladies who read this, do you really believe that a man isn't all about the size of his equipment? Some of us can transcend that, but it's always there in the back of our minds. Your man ever get jealous about your previous boyfriends? Why? We want to know if he's better intimately than we are. That includes the size of the tools, ladies. Sorry, that's just who we are. We're from Mars, you're from Venus. Remember?
Let your brother be. Why do you want to know if he likes girls? Are you interested in trying to blackmail him? Are you looking out for his well-being? Are you just being nosey?
2006-11-06 06:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by stevegoryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me they have no respect for themselves or you. Hanging around the house in their underwear and not caring if their junk falls out is degrading for you. What if you bring over a friend one day and they have to see that. I agree with RobertMcArthur48, your parents have to step in and set boundaries. Instead of them walking around in underwear, why not go and get them some sleep pants. Guys comparing their equipment is a pretty normal thing around the age of 12 and 13 but once they get to be around 15 and 16 years old they are usually more focused on girls. I think your brothers could be curious about their sexuality but I wouldn't taunt them about this, it can cause them to hate what they don't understand.
2016-05-22 04:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. i know that its normal for 2-4 yr old to do that i dont know about 14-15 yr old. His sexuality is suspect. theres only one way to find out sit him down and have a talk with him about the birds and the bees. the fact that he walks about his boxers around the house i dont think that it means anything.
2006-11-06 05:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by rich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if they are sitting around the house in their boxers when there are other girls in the house, then you have to have some of the girls carry them up stairs and put clothes on them. If they are making fun of you, then you should give them a makeover.
2006-11-06 07:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy looking at the way he act in front of a lot of people and the way he talk you know how that go just feel out and try to hook him with a girl and see with he say if he talk to her then he like girls if don't talk to her then that many he don't like girls good luck with my advice girl about talking to your brother
2006-11-06 06:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always compare each others junk. But you are his sister, he's not suppose to like you-you can't go by that.
Yes, it does make a difference.
2006-11-06 06:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not normal for your brothers to be attracted to you irrespective of what goes on in the midwest and south of this country.
Incest is not ok.
2006-11-06 05:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not care what you think, or else he might be a perv and wants to "play docter";.
Either way, get out of there, FAST!!!
2006-11-06 06:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by ABK_SCRUB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats not normal try seting him up with one of youre pretty friens if denies he doesnt like them
2006-11-06 05:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by skipcap562c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋