2006-11-06 05:46:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if it shows rough anal.... :D
2006-11-13 14:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by New Day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pornography is immoral but in itself doesn't ruin relationships.
It's how much and why you watch it that can ruin the relationship.
Excess in everything is bad, so is excess in pornography. If, for example, you watch it to escape the really wrold of sex with your partner it's bad. If you watch it because you can't get laid, it doesn't help you to go out there and look for a partner.
Me, personally, pornography have helped me. Especially softcore porn. Sometimes you often think that you're doing something right until you see what it looks like to do it right. For example i use to be messy when it came to oral sex until i realized i was doing it all wrong. Well guess what !!! The results were amazing.
2006-11-06 14:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by ralph 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No - but deception and betrayal do ruin relationships. If your spouse believes that you are exclusive to him/her, then finds out you are having image-driven fantasies with others, then he/she will very likely feel betrayed. Mutually agreed upon and shared pornography can be useful to enliven a couple's live life. However, anything that comes between two mates is damaging to the relationship.
Can you talk about your use of pornography easily with your mate? If not, then it has the potential of damaging your relationship. In that case, you must decide which is more valuable to you - your partner or your porn.
2006-11-06 14:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Family Mediator 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes in one way or the another. Many people know how porn directly ruins relationships, but it the indirect that many people miss. Even in relationships where the members may not care if their partner looks at porn or even if they watch porn together porn is damaging. Porn effects the mind, at first couple may find porn "educational" meaning it helps them explore their fantasies together however (especially for men) porn eventually puts images of expectations that can not be met by ones partner into ones head. And this is where the real deep problems being. A person may begin to not be totally fulfilled by their partner anymore and this eventually leads to either emotional or physical infidelity. So its for these reasons that I would say porn ruins relationships. At least monogamous committed relationships.
2006-11-06 13:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Almack 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Only if it becomes an obsession like anything else. Porn can be healthy if both partners dig it. I can't believe how many morons think looking at skin books is the same as cheating.
2006-11-06 15:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it does well for me because it is like cheating because in a way you are seening another person and it is like cheating plus it feels wrong to watch it and the trust goes away in a relationship but for some couples maybe it hepls them but this question have two answer yes and a no
2006-11-06 14:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by mrl53104 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure thing. Especially for the female in the relationship.
2006-11-06 13:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Regi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how secure the relationship is. Otherwise, it shouldn't ruin a relationship.
2006-11-06 13:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mimy ImFurst 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Without a doubt! It feeds perverse, and lustful desires that you shouldn't have towards anyone but your spouse, and honestly, it can lead to other types of straying in a marriage relationship!
My advice-Run from it!
2006-11-06 13:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you're one of those REALLY religious nut jobs out there who thinks EVERYTHING is sinful.
The same self-righteous, holier-than-thou types who are constantly being dragged out of the closet, or who are discovered to be some of the most hypocritical, two-faced, evil people on the planet.
Geez, I HATE religious people with a passion.
2006-11-06 13:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It would depend on the people in the relationship, some people aren't comfortable with it, while others are fine with it. So, for some couples it would , and for others it wouldn't.
2006-11-06 13:49:15 · answer #11 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋