How's it going? I am 23 years of age and I haven't had a date in almost 2 years. My problem is that I am afraid that I may mess up the relationship due to lack of confidence. I consider myself non confident and not boyfriend material. My last relationship didn't workout because I dated my bestfriend and when were kissing, it just felt bizzare. So we had to end it. That was in 2004.
Plenty of women look at me when I go to work or back home on the train and I never say anything to them. What the hell is my problem???
2006-11-06 05:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Date me. Date me!
2006-11-06 05:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 24 and haven't dated in 2 years, but that's completely by choice.
Before you get a girlfriend, I think you should work on your confidence. Get some self-help books and read them. It may sound corny, but it really will help. You also have to figure out who you are and what you want in a person, and then find it.
I suggest that you watch the movie "the secret," which you can find at www.thesecret.tv . This movie will help in business as well as relationships.
2006-11-06 13:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♬♥YouBetcha♥♬ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need theme music...something from Saturday Night Fever.
Just look back at the chicks that are looking at you...one of them will come over and talk to you eventually. You don't have to marry them or be their boyfriend...just date for the experience.
Confidence is one thing, but why do you feel you are not boyfriend material? You have to overcome that or fix what is wrong.
2006-11-06 13:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you stop thinking of it as a relationship and just think of having a good time. Throw yourself back out dating have fun with it. You are young enjoy.
2006-11-06 13:43:30 · answer #4 · answered by girlio33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats funny.
you probly dont even have a problem, you probly just dont like the GAME.
yeah kissing a friend is the worst!
but the girls who are checking you out ......you should probly not throw away all the numbers..
keep a few.
give someone a chance dammit
-)
2006-11-06 13:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and go find someone, things are never going to work right if you are too afraid! go for it! Good Luck!
2006-11-06 13:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a problem that should be taken to the shrink.
2006-11-06 13:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by do you wanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you gay? thats really what I immediately thought. Buy some self help books.
2006-11-06 13:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you spending a lot of money in the adult shops yes
2006-11-06 13:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you looked in the mirror lately, mabye your UGLY!!!, are you fat and ugly, I think your fat and ugly, mabye because guys dont feel atractive to you, if your hot, than i dont know.
2006-11-06 13:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by mr. fancy pants 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋