she's taken my number. we met in a place with our friends. she mentioned (out of nowhere) that she's a lesbian and she lives with her girlfriend. but she left the door slight open to a bisexual relationship. i want a decent relationship. (the other girl will be o.k. but it will be too complicated.) we have a date tomorrow. what should i do? i'll be grateful for any help. thanx anyway
2006-11-06 05:36:58 · 8 answers · asked by gokseldogan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All women are bisexual. Most only fantacize. However, when a woman tells you she is a lesbian, what she means is that she is nuts. That goes double if she actually lives with a woman. This means NOTHING as far as if she will have sex with you or not. However, just because she wants to screw your brains out, you can't assume anything about the other woman unless this interaction unfolds with them both present. Look at it this way. In order to succeed elsewise, you have to seduce a complete stranger and then go with her to another location and seduce another complete stranger. The first one is easier because the fact that you met her usually means she is already inclined. However, her live in is not. And both are crazy. The first one of the pair you meet is likely crazy in a way you already find acceptable and who you are already attracted to. But, be prepared for horrible surprises about the other one, not to mention interpersonal crap that may be going on (example: they had a fight so now she is punishing her live in by screwing some guy). Did I mention that "lesbian" is womanese for insane?
If you want a threesome, it is far better to find a normal girl and work on her and one of her close friends. Likely, they are halfway there and only need the proper catalyst to make it happen (in other words, you). However, this is never going to result in a "decent relationship". What it will do is fall apart in dramatic fashion in a short period of time. In other words, you do this with acquaintances you are having sex with....never with serious girlfriends.
2006-11-06 05:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a real relationship I wouldn't go on a date with her, but if you want to just have some fun...sounds like you found the right girl.
2006-11-06 05:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a decent relationship then you must wait for her to become completely available to you. If she's in a relationship with someone else, it ain't gonna happen.
2006-11-06 05:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably bi or at least confused. If you want a decent relationship I would suggest just being friends for now.
2006-11-06 05:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by angelica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel the date, she is probably only going to use you for an experiment.
2006-11-06 05:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by laChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though a les has chosen to a basic lifestyle she still has a need to be " filled " once in a while i would say she is just looking for a possible "semen donor"
RUN RUN RUN
2006-11-06 05:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bucky411_hit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be bi.Just relax and have fun on your 1st date!
2006-11-06 05:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she lies to atract you more,bacause it\'s something new for you
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2006-11-06 05:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋