He said he is too tired to hold my hand or touch me at night when we are sitting on the couch, but he has plenty of energy to go fishing. when he does touch me, it's usually grabbing my boob or taking my hand and putting it on his self. Sex is only twice a month. I want to be shown a little affection other than sex. Is this too much to ask from a man. I am a very attractive woman with a nice figure. I just don't understand why he finds it so hard to just touch me. Help!!
2006-11-06 05:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by browneyestjb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like it's too much for THIS man. He 's only thinking of his wants, not yours. Get a new boyfriend, this is more serious that it appears.
2006-11-06 05:27:18 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key. You need to sit down with him as soon as possible and express your feelings. This situation needs to be resolved before marriage. Some men find it hard to express their feeling.
When you and your fiance sit down to discuss this matter, go in it with an open mind. No need to be rude to each other. If you have further doubts try counseling. Try living in separate houses until marriage. This situation must be resolved before marriage.
2006-11-06 13:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Realist 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear browneyes,
The man is obviously a fool. If I had a beautiful
woman who wanted & needed my attention, then she would have it 24/7. What can I say! He is a FOOL.
2006-11-06 13:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it happens...try & communicate to him..abt it....talk abt how much do u like when some xyz on the road...hugged her or ne of ur friend's boy friend took her on a candle light dinner & u liked that so much...u love thgs like that..& never ever tell him that u dont like sex....
2006-11-06 13:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by anamika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is been taught in chinese culture , they believe less sex gives you long life
2006-11-06 13:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋