I baby sat this 10 year old and i found 2 porno magazines and in his room, and when i asked him about it he said his dad gave them to him! i dont believe that his dad would give him those but i dont think its right to just leave a porno out for a little boy to find!! and when i confronted his dad, he just laughed and said oh ya! then handed me my money and changed the subject, asking if i would come back next weekend!! what do you think i should do????????
2006-11-06 05:08:54 · 21 answers · asked by Cassandra 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I think its pretty sad that his dad is instigating a bad view of women and sexual plessure at such a young age. 10 years old and he has not even hit puberty yet but his dad is filling his mind with a certain idea of how women should look or act in sexual nature? This is truelly sad and the fact that the dad condones it is just sick. I would not want my daughter to sit for such a person. Good baby sitters are hard to come by, I am sure their are other better deserving families. Porn creates an unrealistic view of sex and women and making the guy feel more empowered. I would feel very uneasy about being around the dad.
2006-11-06 10:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by scottnkris819 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-21 09:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys and it's normal for boys to be interested in porn. At some point they will watch porno. The fact that the dad addressed it to him is a bit wierd, but some parents have a more open relationship with their children. It's better to know for sure if they are watching porn than to keep it a secret.
2006-11-06 05:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by XoSexierDenYewXo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does his mother live in the home? this is not okay at all for a 10 year old boy to have , I would not go back there to baby sit any more but if you chose to take the magz and throw them in the trash!
2006-11-06 05:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to buy porno magz you have to be 18 so no its not alright for the 10 year old boy to have them. if you feel uncomfortable in being in that house then don't go anymore.
2006-11-06 05:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it is not ok for the 10 year old boy to have porno. he is way to young he should be outside playing football and other games.
2006-11-06 05:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW...in this day and age nothing really shocks me anymore but that kinda threw me off a bit. If I were you I think I would talk to the Mother about what I had found and see what her reaction is.
2006-11-07 00:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything you can do for him! If his dad let him have it! He shouldn't have it though! Can you throw them in the trash maybe one day you are there? That's disgusting to give a ten yr old junk like that!
2006-11-06 07:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not ok whatsoever!!! There is a time and a place for everything...but certainly not at 10 years of age. If it is bothering you, well don't baby sit for them again.
2006-11-06 05:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by ludacrusher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLY NOT ALLRIGHT THERE ARE TO MANY YOUNG PARENTS OUT THERE ALREADY I WAS ONE OF THEM IT IS HARD SO Y WOULD THIS FATHER ENCOURAGE SUCH A THING I CANT UNDERSTAND... EITHER JUST DONT WORRY BOUT IT OR DONT BABY SITT ANY MORE THAT IS A DECISION ONLY YOU CAN MAKE BUT I DONT THINK I COULD DO IT ANY MORE WHAT IF THE BOY IS WANKIN OFF AND YOU CATCH HIM OH MY ......... THAT IS Y I SAY I DONT THINK I COULD ANY MORE GOOD LUCK
2006-11-06 05:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by blackhairedbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋