You know, when they just do something really strange like place their head the same direction as you, etc, and it's just plain weird and you wanna slap 'em?
2006-11-06 05:05:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
On the last date I went on, the guy didn't hug right at the end of the date. He turned his head to the side. It gave me the impression of a little kid hugging his mom. Definitely felt weird. I didn't want to slap him, but the hug was less than satisfying.
2006-11-06 16:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is pretty deep, the person who is not hugging probably wasn't hugged very often growing up. Even if they don't hug back still give them hugs. They are probably carrying around some baggage from their childhood, doesn't mean that they don't deserve a hug. Just don't expect a fantastic hug in return and remember everyone has different issues. Feel happy that you gave a person who wasn't hugged much as a child something to remember. Your hugs count more to people who are afraid to hug back.
2006-11-06 05:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by carly h 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have but I've learned to always turn my head away from people. I love giving hugs and I love getting them. The ones I don't particularly care for are from the people who "pat" your back so hard it makes your head rattle! LOL With those folks I just brace myself and try very hard to give a quick hug and get away fast!
2006-11-06 07:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rembrandt11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't like to be hugged, therefore, the hug turns out to be awkward. I don't like to be hugged by every person I know, and definitely not strangers. Only VERY close family and friends.
I don't know if that may be your case, but if you find that you're the one initiating the hug, and the other person kinda cringes, and it turns out awkward, it may be that they just don't want to be hugged, but don't want to be rude to you.
2006-11-06 12:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by latitude 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 22:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a crazy cousin that likes to kiss on both cheeks and hug. I hate that b/c I don't like to be touched intinamly by relatives or females. I'm not gay ether and nether is she. She's not from Europe so I don't see why she feels the need to do that.
I usually back up just so I can avoid it. I ignore the nagging parent that can't control me now that bugs me to come closer.
2006-11-06 06:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes ! A few of our exchange students have come to us without the hugging ability.... I beat it in to them... ha ha ! and they leave here hugging like pro's !!!
2006-11-06 07:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I have. I don't like hugging people I don't know that well. Thats usually when this happens.
2006-11-06 05:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Violante 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just want to grab them and show them the proper way to hug !
2006-11-06 05:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's casual, my rule is "head to the right, lips away from their face or over the shoulder". I don't want to be caught in embarrassing snafu.
2006-11-06 05:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋