I finally got over the fact that my boyfriend was never going to call or contact me again, since I hadn't heard from him in weeks and he never once picked up the phone to call me. Then I here from someone that I didn't even know that he said that he didn't have a girlfriend. So I just took the opertunity to release myself for our so called realationship and I officially did when this hot dude I met from around the way asked me out.
But here comes my ex three days after I hook up with this guy saying he had is computer in the shop all this time. So is this BS or what. What I want to ask you guys is how do I tell my ex I've moved on when he wants me to thing that I would what for him to talk to me whenever the hell he feels like it or when it freezes over. Please answer, because right know I'm just thinking I will ignore him and let him figure it out for himself...but I want to be a lady about the situation.
2006-11-06 05:04:00 · 11 answers · asked by Baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I know this will sound crazy, but you shouldn't assume that just because he hadn't called you in a while doesn't mean that he didn't want to have anything to do with you. Did he tell you that from his own mouth? And as far as you hearing things from other people, you shouldn't go by that either. On the other hand, his computer being in the shop sounds pretty funny also, seeing as there are many different forms of communication these days (phone letters) unless the other forms of communication are not available to you guys. Since you have already released yourself from the situation, I think you should just expain that to him and just tell him that you've moved on. In my opinion, it's not good to go backwards in time (not that you even want to) but tell him so that he can move on too.
2006-11-06 05:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, why did you invite your "enemy" to the party? Secondly, flow on. Why would you want to be with this "Ryan" human being if he's with someone that you supposedly dislike a lot to call her your enemy? imagine about it. An enemy in a lot of situations includes with him/her characteristics that are your opposite, thereby making her a non-buddy. So if someone likes your enemy, that is an oblique way of exclaiming he doesn't like you, correct? Why take care of that? Why even go there in case you comprehend you're going to finally end up more effective heart damaged? flow on, locate someone it really is worth some time and not in any respect putting out with those who are not even remotely close to what you'll call "acquaintances." good luck!
2016-11-28 20:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by plyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...his computer was in the shop, doesn't he own a cell phone or a regular phone line.....His BS you, I think. Just explain, that he hasn't contacted you in weeks, and you have decided to go in a different direction...hopefully he gets the point.
2006-11-06 05:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alexander G. Bell invented this cool thing called the TELEPHONE a little while ago.
Even if the PC was munched, he could still call you.
No excuses.
Drop him like a hot rock, and move on.
2006-11-06 05:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by George Curious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tel him because of him not contacting you in other ways like a phone, or a letter, etc. That you have moved on and you hope the best for him.
2006-11-06 05:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, it obviously wasn't that important for either of you if you have moved on so quickly and he didn't bother to contact by means other than the computer during that time.
2006-11-06 05:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by onottopilot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Even if his computer was being fixed he could have called, right? Don't fall for it and good luck with your new bf.
2006-11-06 05:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that I need to be with someone who can't wait to call me every day, and who finds a way to see me as often as possible. Then I would gracefully tell him that he isn't meeting my needs in that way.
2006-11-06 05:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by jenh42002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him where he stands on the whole us thing and well if he says he still wants to be with u then well ask him why you got a call from someone saying you didnt have a girlfriend... and take it from there...
2006-11-06 05:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by jeans0079 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you've moved on, ok, his computer may have been broken, but not calling, not visiting you, not using a public access computer, not even sending you a letter. he has been leading you on.
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2006-11-06 05:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by need help now? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋