she has been hurt badly in the past so now she loves me and since for the last 2 years i have been so wonderful that she is scared to death of me hurting her which has less of a chance of happening than the the earth stops revolvoing,,,,,so she is still holding back in many ways..i am patient..and would wait forever...just wish she would finally trust me
2006-11-06 05:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by davidscott134 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just continue to do what you are doing...be patient. You are doing the right thing. Eventually she will come around.
2006-11-06 05:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time, and patience if you truly love her you'll wait. It's hard to really love someone when you've been hurt badly, because its almost like everyone is out to get you, so she has to feel secured and loved in a way she's never felt. Some people can just bounce right back but others take a little time to get over their problems. it's all about emotions, maybe you should get counselling together. That may help, otherwise continue to love her and let your love be known and hope and pray she'll love you the same in time to come. Good luck
2006-11-06 13:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
David, I wish I could help you more, but the best advice I know is for you to continue to be patient, consistent, pray about it, and continue to love her and show her that you do. I believe that if she really loves you in return, she will come around to seeing that you won't hurt her. I am going through the same thing with my girlfriend...who is an awesome Lady, but she also has been hurt badly in the past. I believe that the best thing we can do is to continue to love them and let them SEE that we do.
2006-11-06 13:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bill B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what more she needs for you to do. There must be something still holding her back. Two years is a long time so if she still doesn't trust you she has a reason for it. Talk to her.
2006-11-06 13:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think women are so sensity that you should have this conversation with her
ive been hurt in the past but i try in every relationship to give almost everything but you cannot trust entirely cause you are afraid
try to understand her and make her feel comfortable so she can be sure that you are in love deeply with her
good luck
2006-11-06 13:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being that wonderful person you are, and remember telling her that your always here for her, she will soon open up and not be scared to death of losing or hurting you or you doing that to her, keep the communication open.
2006-11-06 13:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give it time- she's waiting for it all to fall on her, and, if it never does, she'll have to believe in it.
2006-11-06 13:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her yuo love her and would never intentionally hurt her.
2006-11-06 13:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Redneck Midget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋