The girl I am talking about is my old next door neighbor who I lived by from the time I was 8 to almost 18, I'm 20 now, she's a year younger grade wise than me. I think she developed a bit of a crush on me because I always played with her little brothers are almost 10 years younger than she is, I really love kids but I don't think this girl is my type at all, she always seemed so superficial.
Now she started her first year at my college where I'm a sophmore and she is starring at me constantly. It's gotten to the point where I am trying to avoid where I think she is going to be, I havn't even talked to her, I just stare back for a second then look away, I smiled last time, but she really wasn't even smiling, just starring at me. She is a very pretty girl, but like I said I look for girls with my same interests (sports, music playing).
How do I get this girl to stop staring at me? It's making me very uncomforatable...
2006-11-06 04:56:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should take her out make her feel special then when you are dropping her off you should ask her what her feelling are towards you then you lovingly tell her that your feelings towards her are not the same she should understand tell her that she is a very beatiful girl and that she will soon find the guy that is just right for her she will appreciate that, coz if you keep avoiding her she will never know and then if another guy asks her out she will say no coz she will be too busy waiting for you to admit the feelings that you dont have for her well that is my advice i think it is the best way cool calm and collected
2006-11-06 05:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how do you know that she doesn't have the same interests as you? Have you talked to her about it and figured it out? If you have absolutely no doubt in your mind that she is not your type then start dating someone else and make sure that she sees it. That way she should get the point but then you could also still be a friend to her and hang out with her.
2006-11-06 13:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should talk to her. Maybe ask her "why are you always staring at me". Just explain to her that you dont think she is your type. Perhaps you could be missing out on a great friendship. You are in college and it is time to be a grown up now.
2006-11-06 13:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is such a tough dilemma. Honesty really is the best policy. Speak with her. Tell her you are uncomfortable around her and you only have friendship and brotherly feelings for her; your feelings are not romantic towards her. Make it seem like you feel you are her brother; this will let her off the hook in feeling you reject her romantically.
Be nice to her but tell her you are not the one for her.
2006-11-06 13:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Let her know you like to be friends...nothing more. Maybe she is staring, wondering why you are pretending not to know her? She might not be interested in a relationship either....but friends are always good!
2006-11-06 13:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by melissa6119 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and let her know how you feel. If it continues talk to her parents. I know its not the best alternative, but it may embarrass her enough to work.
2006-11-06 13:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you have to tell her. Just come out into the open and let her know that you don't like her like that.
2006-11-06 13:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by JenniB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds alittle scary to me....like almost stalker status....id tell her to stop and if that doesn't work or it gets worse.....restraining order time
2006-11-06 13:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by confused07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your friends to talk to her, telling her you're not interested.
2006-11-06 13:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her that she like a sister to you lol that will make her stop
2006-11-06 13:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋