I am talking to this guy via the internet and we have alot in common. The only problem is that he wants to have a sexual relationship as soon as we start dating. I was not opposed at first, but now I'm starting to have second thoughts. We are both very sexual people and to be honest it seems ok, but I am worried he only wants me for this. He has expressed to me that when we actually being dating he wants it to be serious, but I don't know if he is for real or not. I think dating a little while before we begin a sexual relationship would be smart , but I don't know how to tell him this because I kinda already gave him the ok by not saying no. What do I do? I do want to date him for other reasons.
2006-11-06 04:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am ok with a sexual relationship while dating, but not neccesarily with him.
2006-11-06 05:07:08 · update #1
the fact that he said that when you guys start dating, he wants a sexual relationship shows you that he wants just sex. Obviously, when he got on the internet, he was looking for someone to have sex with. If you two guys do have a relationship, just have sex and nothing else and then when you leave in the morning after that night of sex, see if he says...why are you leaving? If he says that, he may want more, but if not, he just wants sex.
If he puts up a fight for you to stay at his house, then he does want a real relationship and a lot of sex. If he doesnt, then he just wants sex...eventually when something happens,you will know what he is thinking really.
2006-11-06 04:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should definitly tell him to slow down a little..or alot. First of all, if you only know him through internet, and havn't even seen him, he could be someone totally different. Plus it is extremely easy to disguise your personality on the internet. So maybe you don't actually like this guy, you just like the guy he's pretending to be. And secondly, you shouldn't have sex until marriage!! and with the person you're married to! Its wrong to do it before then. So yeah I think you should meet him in person, see his real personality, and make sure he's not just some freak on the internet.
2006-11-06 04:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't open the legs til your sure of his intentions! Also don't drop to your knees til your sure he is looking for more than a sexual release! YOUR better than that....and if your not,
call me instead!!!
2006-11-06 04:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you, any man that can come out and say that without really knowing you is only out for one thing. if he can say that to you hes said it to others dont bother youll only get hurt
2006-11-06 04:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by lookingforanswe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him, all he wants is your body. You are headed for heart break city. find a guy who likes you for who you are and not for your body.
2006-11-06 04:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by nik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to have sex with someone you hardly know. i would continue to say no and if he don't like your answer find someone who would respect you for saying no.
2006-11-06 04:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! He's just going to use you. Get to know him first!
2006-11-06 04:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋