I just found out that my boyfriend of two years went to an ****** massage place. Now I'm not fully aware of what goes on in there but I feel betrayed. Our sex life is great, we've just been too busy recently to have any time for that.... I'm so hurt and angry.
Does this count as cheating... He paid another woman to do something....
~Betrayed~
2006-11-06 04:44:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
e.rotic massage place
2006-11-06 04:44:49 · update #1
Sarah; an EROTI.C massage places does sexual favors, "massages" certain places that a normal SPA doesn't do.
2006-11-06 04:51:51 · update #2
Let me tell u something my girlfriend told a couple of years ago: a man is cheating a woman when he is in love with somebody else and he is trying to hide that. Ask your man what he did that day and if he'll tel u the truth don;t worry, if he lies then... If a man goes to a prostitute to have sex, he might do that in order to do things which he can't do at home, with his girlfriend. For example: do you only have normal sex or or** and an** sex? Cause he might want something that u don't agree with! Think about it!
2006-11-06 04:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by red 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea what an ****** massage place is but if it was just a normal massage place than no it is not cheating. I dont believe that at any massage place in the us. it would be legal to touch a person sexually or eroticcaly. what exactly did this other woman do that you are so upset about.
2006-11-06 04:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by mamamia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every one has desires that are not fulfilled in the normal process. It is better to get them out of the way rather than long for them all the time.You must learn to look the other way for these minor transgressions. That way every time one looks at a beautiful girl some indecent thoughts might cross ones mind. This is the natural reaction of a healthy male. In your scheme of things this will be cheating. Won't it? The main point to note is that he has the necessary feed back and corrective mechanisms in place to return to you all the time and not overdo any thing that disturbs the applecart.
2006-11-06 05:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have heard about those places and from what I heard he cheated. The way to evaluate if something is cheating.....ask yourself if you think he would be mad if you went for an ****** massage and had some guys hands all over you.
2006-11-06 04:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would consider it as cheating but not a very serious one.
There is no sex at a massage parlour. It is usually somekind of masturbation. So there are very remote chances of picking up some infection. But it is a very serious step to progress and venture in to some really dangerous places...... .
Give a ultimatum to him and make sure you are the best one for any thing he likes
2006-11-06 12:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by betelguese999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its Cheating with a Big "C". If he really wanted a massage he could go to any normal massage place but no he went to an ##### massage place..... any gusses why?
He does not deserve you. Leave him telling him that you went to one too and see his reaction too.
2006-11-06 16:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes thats cheating, i'd be hurt and angry too. i would find an ****** massage place for women so you can go and have a man erotically massage you and see how he likes that.
2006-11-06 04:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that some things went on in the massage place that you would not approve of. If he had interaction with someone that should be reserved only for you, then it is cheating.
2006-11-06 04:48:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would he like it if you went to an ****** massage place where men are rubbing on you and stuff? I don't think so...
2006-11-06 04:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT really!
he is just a MAN!
Is better , he is paying to lady for 1 h. that to look to a different serious relation. The problem here that you find out. Close your eyes sometimes.
Tell him u will kill him if he will do this again! and then - forgive. Take care
2006-11-06 04:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by awg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋