why an i shy?

Answer 1

lol because u r sweet

i think u mean why can i be shy ?

Answer 2

You are not shy - you stay shy...
Perhaps you don't wish show who is you.
Certanly you can change it if you desire.
Start singing in a bus, in the shoppings, in the elevator, etc.
Run to street with pink clothes.
If after this you don't blush, you aren't shy. ;-)
Now, speaking serious: The best option is you find a professional in phsycology area. Good look.

Answer 3

Same reason I'm shy, that's just how I am, that's the way my brain works. People tell me to talk more but it's like telling an anorexic to "just eat." Extroverted people just don't get it. It's a little bit of a character flaw that I have but I make up for it in other ways. I accept and like who I am.

Answer 4

Everyone is born with their own personality traits, I use to be shy but when I started getting older I realized that I have nothing to be shy about....Then my attitude went from shy to outgoing.....So just deal with it now and in the future it might change but it depends on you.....

Answer 5

Well that depends on you. I'm reasonably shy but thats because I prefer to listen and find out who I'm talking to before I began revealing myself. Other's I think are shy because of fear. If thats your case loosen up there is nothing to be scared of in conversation.

Answer 6

Low self esteem, is there something about you that you find utterly repulsive? if there is, now is the time to come to terms with it. When you love yourself, you will develop confidence. some people act shy because they do not want to be noticed, not saying you should do anything to put yourself out there, but when you show self respect and self love people will give you what you deserve and that will help build your confidence, thus eliminating your shyness.

Answer 7

there can be many reasons like maybe you are afraid someone will find something about you you don't want them to know about or maybe you aren't around people enough. i was really shy a couple years ago but i got over it as i got older you should to good luck.

Answer 8

you lack self confidence. if you are in a group of people you proberbly choose to observe because your afraid that you might say something stupid or your comments may cause others to laugh at you. you are not comfortable with your looks and in your own skin. you proberbly come by as aloof until people get to know you better, actually it is until you get to know them better.
try to be more assertive. once you get over your shyness you start having way more fun.

Answer 9

i dont know it is just part of yer personality and yuo are going to overcome it. i used to be very shy now i am a little shy. if yuo dont talk to people yuo wont marry somone yuo like.

Answer 10

Cuz you're afraid of life?
Cuz you don't get out much?
Cus you live in fear of rejection?
Cuz you feel that you cannot compare with other people?

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