we never used a condom and im very upset. any advice??
2006-11-06 04:25:55 · 26 answers · asked by sexylovesexyqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg - why didnt he tell you something that important.... dont ever sleep with him again and get yourself tested as quick as possible...we are praying for you - please do not be scared to find out your results - you must know for certain if you have caught this deadly disease, and get treatment right away...hurry...
2006-11-06 04:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get tested ASAP!!!!! Don't waste any time doing so. I'm hoping that you don't have the virus, but seeing that you slept with him unprotected is not a good thing. You could be infected seeing that both of your bodily fluids were being exchanged. I know this isn't the type of news you want to hear, but i'm just stating the facts sweetie. Go get tested so that you know what's going on with your body. If you are then atleast you can get the help and care you need now. Some people wait until the last minute to get help because they don't know they have the virus. If somehow you don't have it then that would be great news. Help yourself as quicky as you can. Some people know they have aids and want to infect as many people as they can. This guy knew he was infected and i'm very sure you were not the only one he has done this to. It's very sad and i'm sorry your going through this right now. It's not safe out there. You don't know who has what. I hope things go well for you. Take care.
2006-11-06 04:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do, you just need to find the courage to get yourself tested. Don't wait any longer, right now you're confused and scared. This isn't the end of your life, it's a serious adjustment in the way you will have to live your life this day forward rather the test comes back positive or negative. The quicker you get tested the better chance you will give your body to fight infection if you're infected. If not they proceed with extreme caution, and don't hate you boy friend. IF he was trying to hide this from you he would have just broking up with you or stayed quite about it. It doesn't sound like both of you were about to getting tested.
2006-11-06 05:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dongray A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say use your head next time, but....
DO NOT have sex with anyone for at least 6-8 months.. That is enough time to wait until you can get an AIDS test.. Go get a test after the time period and pray...Good Luck
2006-11-06 04:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by hockeytwn09 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get tested ASAP!!!!! Did the guy know he had AIDS while he was sleeping with you? If so, so the pants off his a**. And remember, it can take years for it to show up, so if it comes up negative this time you may not be off the hook. Keep getting tested. And this is a lesson learned. ALWAYS USE PROTECTION!!!
2006-11-06 04:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by divalicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an HIV test carried out as soon as possible. I am not sure where you are living so can't suggest who you should consult. For your sake I hope you have not contracted it - if you haven't think yourself very lucky and never have casual unprotected sex again!
2006-11-06 04:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should of thought about the negative consequences b4 you spread your legs and had intercourse w/o a condom. Go to the local clinic and get tested.......duh!!
Ppl amaze me with the whole "It wont happen to me attitude", from now on be smart and use a condom regardless the situation. Wow!
2006-11-06 04:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to get tested NOW!!! That is why you always protect yourself!! The only way you can press charges like others are saying is if you can prove that he knew he had it and was having sex intentionally to spread the disease.
2006-11-06 04:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One shud use a boat to cross a river, instead of jumping in (even no life jacket), then the result can clearly be anticipated.
2006-11-06 04:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to your Doctor and take the required testes needed to bring comfort to your worried mind.
2006-11-06 04:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋