okay look im 14 and i have a boyfriend but i wont have sex with him people tell me im beatiful but i feel inconfident about my body . my boyfriend thinks im unfair because im not a virgin (i had sex one time with this boy)i dont know what to do and i dont know how to feel about the situation either so what do i do?
2006-11-06 04:24:14 · 22 answers · asked by badgurl101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF YOURE NOT SURE THEN DONT DO IT. YOU WILL REGRET IT INTHE END. IF HE KEEPS TRYING TO PRESSURE YOU THEN DUMP HIM FOR SOMEONE THAT WILL RESPECT YOUR WISHES. HES JUST TRYING TO GET HIS D*** WET.
2006-11-06 04:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 years old, you made the mistake once already, don't do it again. You do not need to be having sex so young. You will regret it. Enjoy being a kid, and stop trying to grow up so fast. You are only a kid once, and believe me you do not want to be a child and have to raise one too. If your boyfriend thinks you are unfair, then let him think that. Save yourself for when you are old enough to understand everything there is to understand about sex.
2006-11-06 04:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 08:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by freudenburg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14 you shouldn't be even thinking about sex let alone having sex. Your boyfriend can't respect your decision to not have sex then he's not good for you. Don't worry about sex right now you are very very young, I'm 16 and I haven't had sex yet. Focus on school less on sex.
2006-11-06 04:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure that you want to have sex then DON'T until you know you are ready. Of course your BF is saying you are unfair because he wants in your pants. Do not let anyone ever pressure you into having sex.
2006-11-06 04:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your father what this boy is doing and let him handle it. Your only 14 you will have plenty of time for that stuff when your grown. Also think about how it would be if you became pregnant
2006-11-06 04:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by bamhse5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sex isn't the answer to making you feel beautiful because if you don't actually want it then you'll feel bad about yourself afterwards.
The whole beautiful thing is all in your head, just know that you are beautiful.
2006-11-06 04:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw naw naw your not ready to have a kid and i know you know that.He can wait!if not then tell him bye if he loves you hell understand.me and my boyfriend been going out for 10 months i barely gave him some two months ago he waited so think it through if you dont want to dont let them make you your your own person get the boy up in check.
2006-11-06 04:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by mr.Roger ant got shyt on my hood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14? Way too young to deal with the consequences!! Simply put....Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wait until you are absolutely, positively, without a doubt positive that the time is right.....hopefully NO time soon!! When you do decide to become sexually active, you must use protection and begin regular Gynecological visits to stay healthy.
2006-11-06 04:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've had sex before doesn't mean you have to have sex now. It's not about being "fair" - it's about doing what you are comfortable with.
2006-11-06 04:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you tell your bf about how you feel about it. Also, if you love your bf, you shouldnt be worried about how you feel, becuz he thinks you are beautiful, so obviously when you guys are doing it, hes not gonna be thinking, ewwwww.
stop thinking so much, because this may ruin your relationship, but also, he should be willing to wait until your ready.
2006-11-06 04:29:20 · answer #11 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋