Sooo I have a friend with special privelages, so to say, and we've been hookin up for several months. Recently when we have sex I have been bleeding. It's not that time of the month and it totally creeps my friend out.
So I went to the doctor, and was told it was one of two things, either the way my body is reacting to changing birth control so many times, or I have a cyst and I was scheduled for an ultra sound.
I told my friend the situation, and let him know that it wasn't anything he was doing and my body is just going through some crazy sh*it right now.
He is still creeped out and I can't read what he's feeling about this whole situation.
So Guys what would u do in this situation? Just curious... Really enjoy the no strings relationship and the great sex we have, but can't control the things my body is doing right now? I'm not ready for anything more than that right now...
2006-11-06 04:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by sasifrass13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To those who commented thanks...
No hurt feelings if he moves on, but i must say I sure would miss the sex... it's ... wow... ya know...
Not too many no strings relationships work out, either the man or the woman gets attached, and we haven't had that problems, so it's all good.
I'd just miss the great sex. Sorry if that's shallow, but it's real!
2006-11-06 04:41:15 · update #1
If it were me I'd stick with you to make sure you are okay. Even if it's just physical there is something there. As far as him being creeped out, what is he 16? If it's no strings and he's a prick he'll probably leave. Good Luck and whatever happens hold your head up and be positive.
2006-11-06 04:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any reason to get creeped out, if it was something I was doing I would expect you to let me know. I would be more involved with the health situation, perhaps drive you to your dr.'s appointments and such. But then again, I am a pretty caring guy.
2006-11-06 04:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by ttepinzon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men hate to think. Anything about the functionings of a woman's body they hate to think about even more. Men are simple one thing at a time type creatures. Give them a beer and someplace to sleep and they are happy. Details about what you have going on make their minds blow a fuze. Sorry about telling you this but it is just the way nature designs their brains? to work?.
2006-11-06 04:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your friend is creeped out, let him be - find another 'friend' who's fine with occasional spotting.
If it's truly no-strings, then there should be no hurt feelings all around.
2006-11-06 04:21:41 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is 2 give him some time, deal with the problem then go to him and tell him taht everything is OK.
2006-11-06 04:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by red 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you said for men only...but most men won't take the time to read all that, and most are grossed out by our period's and any other problems we might have "down there"...
2006-11-06 04:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some space until you find out what's going on. if he is understanding he will support you while you are going thru the situation that you are in
2006-11-06 04:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him stop bein a pansy. If the doc gives you a clean bill of health its ok
2006-11-06 04:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by Random Nimrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wont like any more sex from ur side
2006-11-06 04:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by coolest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry , no sex experience here.
2006-11-06 04:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋