my bf wants oral sex!?

Question

he keeps on saying he wants to do it with me and says he's experienced it with a few girls. i haven't done it but i want to do it with him since i really love him. wat is oral sex in the 1st place? i don't want to tell my age b/c of the rude comments some people would give, how could i make him happy and surprised with some skills? help please, i need advice on how to make it better than wat he has experienced...tnx in advance if u do answer me

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Answer 1

Oral sex is when a girl sucks on a boy's penis, or when a Boy licks a girls vagina.

Answer 2

I see others have answered the technical question. Have you talked this situation over with your parents? There are a lot of risks involved with any sexual activity, including oral sex, and you should really be quite comfortable with them. Your boyfriend is sexually active, so he might have an STD. Also, things "progress" naturally and fast from heavy petting to oral sex to vaginal intercourse (that sounds so cold.. basically its very very easy to "lose control"). You could be putting yourself at risk for pregnancy, which at 12 you are absolutely not ready for physically, emotionally, financially or socially. PLEASE talk this over with your parents because they have to be able to help you if anything "goes wrong". If you're not comfortable talking to them or its not safe, talk to a trusted adult at school like a school nurse or counsellor.

Love at 12 is a precious, wonderful thing, no less real being young. Sex almost always screws up young relationships though. Sex is not required for love, nor love for sex. I hate to be a wet blanket, but a lot of guys don't love in return, they just want the sex. Only time tells the difference; the ones who love you won't pressure you to have sex with them, particularly when you're both completely unprepared for anything to go wrong.

Answer 3

Listen if you dont have a clue what oral sex is....you should'nt be doing it in the first place, and why must you please and make him happy...oral sex is not the be all and end all of making a man happy unless thats all he wants you for....love is so much more than that...for a start you sound way too young...to love someone is not about oral sex alone...geez is this what love boils down to...i think not...you can give him a better experience in other ways.....word of advice dont do this just because he wants you too.

Answer 4

you will be fine dont worry about it :) try different way to get rid of your hair e.g. hair removal cream (thats good) waxing but it can go very red u need to leave it for a few days but i shave and i have the same thing its like smooth and by the next day it all stubbly, all my mates say there the same too. Razor marks most girls get them too so if he has had experience then he will know that normal but if you use a wet sponge or flannel make sure it really cold after shaving but it on that area and keep it there for about 5mins this will leave less razor mark and redness and if you use cream like sudocrem this will get rid of most of the marks. Good Luck :)

Answer 5

I'm assuming your very young, if you don't know what oral sex is.. you shouldn't be doing it, Oral sex is a very personal act not to be taken lightly, I think more so than regular sex.. I know some will disagree, but kids today think nothing of it, nothing is private anymore, it's blabbed all over who's into what, if I found out that my daughter or son for that matter was giving or recieving oral sex I'd be furious. Please wait for that, now that the other idiots on here has told you what it is.. Don't become one of those brain challenged girls who will do anything just to please their guy. They end up alone,and their called SLUTS.

Answer 6

Honey practice makes perfect.. This is coming from a gay male. oral sex for a man is one of the greatest highlights of sex and can be what set's you up for one hell of an orgasm if he is performing oral sex on you. Don't hesitate give it a try. If you are nervous about performing oral sex on him get yourself a banana and practice even better if you have a toy stuff away somewhere you can practice on. If you want any more info regarding your issue send me an email.. at the following email address [e-mail] and I'll give you all the information you need to know. Hope this helped you ..

Answer 7

it's hard to explain it. the most important thing is not to be afraid of it and if you like it you'll be better at it. if you're willing to, you've already taken a big step. today more people do it than don't. as much as girls might talk crap about how they never do or will, behind closed doors they are different people. every man likes it different. so its hard to say what would make you better for him. practise. pay attention to him while you're doing it to see what he gets into more. some people say it's like eating a lollipop; its not. it's more like a popsicle. you might not like this idea, but, watch a porno by yourself to see how they do it.

on another note, i think that sex is important in a relationship. not just because its fun, but because it lets just the one you love see another side of you that nobody else should. and if you want to be with him a while, to keep the sex from getting boring, you should try new things. you making this step will help your relationship.

Answer 8

I wish I did know your age. This is something that you do for some one that you love truly, not just another sexual activity. Honestly, if you really don't know what it is, then you really are much too young to go there.

I appologize for sounding like your mother, but I am the mother of three daughters. I have talked to my girls about this expression of love and what it means, and the ramifications of it - emotionally and physically.

You sound very young and I know you are expecting (and will no doubt get) very graphic ideas. I wish that you would think hard and maturely about this - and about making love in the first place. For males it can (and is) no big deal. Females tend to fall in love with males that they have a sexual relationship with. Do you really want this kind of pain?

Again, I'm sorry. I don't mean to preach, but please be careful of yourself and respect yourself first.

Answer 9

if you are TOO YOUNG to even know what oral sex is .......

then how can you claim you want to "do it" ???

cuz once you cave into any form of sexual activity,
there is no going back ..... your b/f will want it all the time
and pressuring you for intercourse won't be far behind

then if you feel you are TOO YOUNG to lose your virginity to him ...... he will most likely get frustrated & dump you for some other tramp that "puts out"

don't fall into the trap of letting any guy convince
you to do any type of sexual activity that you
AREN'T READY for

also ........ in most states if you are under 16 ....... your b/f could get in serious trouble with the law for any type of sexual activity
(even oral or fondling private parts) ........
sexual intercourse with a minor child can
result in STATUTORY RAPE charges
(even if sex was consentual) ........
and lesser sexual acts your b/f could still be charged with
GROSS SEXUAL IMPOSITION

I would strongly suggest waiting until you are no longer considered a legal minor.
If your b/f truly cares for you he will wait ...... if he still keeps pressuring you, then he is only considering his own feelings & not yours, so you would be better off without him

Answer 10

First off, the best thing you can do to learn technique is watch some porn. But at the most basic level all you really need to do is put his penis in your mouth and proceed to suck. Be gentle at first, and as you become more comfortable with it, you'll find where his tolerance levels to sensitivity are. Don't forget to play! That will is the best thing you can do to make it fun for both of you is to to have fun with it, and experiment. If you feel like playing with his ball sack, go ahead and enjoy, but don't be to rough or squish them too hard. Use your tongue and your lips, they're your best assets. And the last piece of advise I have is to make sure he gives you some loving as well, and if he's good, he'll give it to you.

Answer 11

I'm going to be honest with you, if you don't know what it is don't do it! I understand you love your guy, but oral sex is sex too, so if you aren't willing to give up your virginity don't do this. You can get the same STD's from this as you can having sex. And if he has done this with other girls, you better make sure he gets tested before you do this! One of those girls could have given him something that he would pass on to you! Please,please think long and hard about whether or not you are ready to do this!! If he really loves you he will wait until you are ready!!!