How can I tell a girl who is in a relationship that I like her?????
Or is it best that I wait untill she breaks up with him? She is 15 and hes a bit older they litterally just got together (a coulpe of days). I like her and I think I should tell her, but I have known her 2 years and we are best friends. Should I tell her? When and how? Specifically, how, becuase I need a way that wont make things weird between us.
2006-11-06 04:09:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, if you are best friends, then regardless of how long they have been together, you should respect her relationship and have nothing but positive thoughts about her happiness and her future. Secondly, even if she wasn't in a relationship, you need to think about how much your friendship means to you and how crossing into another territory can be dangerous and may ruin your friendship. Boyfriends/girlfriends come and go but friends last a lifetime. It might be best to just let sleeping dogs lie, because like you said, you don't want things to become weird between you. Also if there's no indication that she has the same feelings, then don't ruin what's good between you. Also, it's been 2 years, how come you guys aren't together yet? Just think about all these things and use them to determine what the best thing for the both of you is. But don't be selfish just because of your feelings. Let her be happy if you care about her.
2006-11-06 04:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too young to be in a relationship as it is. Most girls that age are confused of what love is. They have a hard time seperating the difference between lust, love, and crushes. So if you tell her now, she won't know what to do between the both of you. Maybe she has a hidden crush on you too. Who knows? Just give her time to grow up and understand what's important in her life. The time will come to you, when you're both finally adults and graduated from High School, and you can finally confess your feeling towards her. I believe that's the right moment. High School is very stressful when you have to focus on studies and your future. Once you're in a relationship, it's hard to juggle between everything. So, she's learning the hard way of how to multi-task. Give her space to grow. You can still be there as her friend and your relationship can grow within the years, if she lets it. If it doesn't work out between the 2 of you, just know there are plenty of other women to choose from. Oh and you also don't want to be in any trouble with her boy-friend...so don't get yourself involved. Good luck. Wish you well.
2006-11-06 04:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reilly,
Have you seen the movie "Just Friends" with Ryan Reynolds & Amy Smart? If not, watch it. This movie fits your scenario to the tee!! It shows what can happen when you like your best friend & don't tell them. Plus, it's funny as heck!!
On a more personal note, I think you SHOULD tell her. let her decide what's best for her. If you don't tell her how you feel, it will keep building up inside of you until you can't take it anymore. So just be honest & it will payoff....one way or the other.
Whatever she chooses to do with you (remain friends because she doesn't feel the same way about you--or--start a relationship with you), it will be a weight lifted off of you because at least you will know where you stand in her eyes.....Good luck & blessed be!!
2006-11-06 04:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her!!! She's only just started a new relasionship so if she does feel the same way it would be easier for her to come out of the relasionship now then if you leave it to long. If you can't tell her face to face email her or send her a text. There's no harm in trying if you're really good friends it shouldn't effect your relasionship if she doesnt feel the same. But be prepared to get an answer you don't want. if she doesnt feel the same try to except it and move on but still have her as a friend. Good Luck
2006-11-06 04:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by pinkgirly135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell her, it will probably change how it is between you two. But it will get you to another level. Maybe she would tell you that she likes you as well, or she would tell you that she only wants to be your friend. Both would change your relationship with her...
But she s also very young and people in this age use to switch partners very often because they don t know what exactly they want, so maybe you should wait until she breaks up with that guy, you would have bigger chance that things are gonna wind up as you wish... And don t be affraid how to tell her what you want, if you are good friends, she will understand you. good luck
2006-11-06 04:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by herb s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer even understand the thank you to hug. each and every time I hug this one guy I shop forgetting to place the two palms around him with the aid of fact i'm so traumatic, so i take advantage of one arm. the proper thank you to hug--I have not any thought.
2016-10-03 08:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait. If she's your friend, you need to respect her choice of a current boyfriend.
2006-11-06 04:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she is available
2006-11-06 04:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a few weeks if they dont break up tell her
2006-11-06 04:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by edik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her
2006-11-06 04:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋