OK guys how long does it take before you will?

Question

when u started dating your wife/girl how long before you said "I love you"?
was it because u meant it? Or did you do it because she said it first or something else?

Answer 1

Well I've never told a girl that I love her unless I meant it. I've told many girls that I love them, as matter of fact I LOVE women. So to answer your question as it should be, any man can and will say that he loves a women when ever he feels he has to. It's when he doesn't have to that he does. When a man loves you he will first show it buy doing something must of us men are unaware of and that is giving up our most manly possession OUR EGO. That level of love is called being in love,and that's when you know the different between a man saying i love you & I LOVE YOU.

Answer 2

Wow! About 4 months. I said it because I thought I meant it at the time.

Answer 3

ok, i'm not a guy but my husband didnt tell me he loved me until we had been dating for over a year, lived together, and broken up and moved apart. He came to our old apartment and told me he loved me and wanted to get married. I think a lot of guys just wait until they have to say it or know for good and sure that they mean it. that was 10 yrs ago.

Answer 4

properly, permit me say, you probably did no longer convey wether you have been male or female, i'm in basic terms going to think of you're female. i desire i do no longer offend. permit's commence. I hate to assert it, yet he must be fantastically shallow. he's by no skill met you in individual. i do no longer % you to end your little element, yet you incredibly desire to work out this guy. incredibly, incase you stick to up in this, right this is what i % to propose you do. organize (by text textile, skype, telephone call) to fulfill at a espresso save. I say that, because of the fact, to be uncomplicated and nonetheless it could sound incorrect, there are sexual predators available, and that they do entice females in like this. So meet at a espresso save or cafe. Then be brutally uncomplicated with one yet another and communicate with regard to the way you sense. And nonetheless it sends your nerves up and/or it relatively is awkward or uncomfortable on the time, it relatively is the main remarkable element to do and you will thank your self later. and you communicate with regard to the call calling too :) desire I help, "honey".

Answer 5

I personaly have not said it to my girlfriend as its only been a few months and it takes me a while to fall in love and im not going to say it just to make her feel good... i have to mean it. Some people are different and fall in luv much quicker

Answer 6

I said i love her first because i love her

Answer 7

it took me a year to utter the word. the word "love" is so powerful to me that i don't say it too often. people tend to saying without the meaning or say it too often that it dilute the true meaning of the word. there is a time and place for me to say it. not because of the situation call for like: if she says it, i'll say it too". hope this makes sense.

Answer 8

It took a long time because I had to be sure.
I'm not so sure I had to be sure about my feelings towards her but because I had been hurt bad in the past, I think I wanted to be sure I wasn't about to get hurt again. (If that makes any sense to you).

Answer 9

Well I have never been there yet, but if I said it it would come from my heart if it didnt then there is no reason to say it at all.

Answer 10

When I said it I honestly meant it.