2006-11-06 03:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, how long have you been with him? What are your future plans together? Do you have the same plans? If so, maybe you could casually bring it up.
Maybe during a commercial on TV where you see a baby, say, "I wonder what it would be like if we had one?" Something like that. See what his reaction is. You don't want to rush him into it if he isn't ready to be a father!!!
Just sit down and talk together about it. See what he says. The worst he can say is,"no." Then you may have to wait until he is ready. I hope this helped. Good luck to you...
2006-11-06 03:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a baby is not like playing house. wait until you are set in life with a good house and good income to provide for the child. I'm speaking from experience. I had my first kid at 20, which was too young. I struggled through college, and now at 29 just bought my first house. my kids are 7 and 9. Just wait until you are settled into life a little better.
2006-11-06 03:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jenni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer to help with a newborn for a week, then see if you still want a baby. Also, even thou it is common, it is not right for the child to not be brought up in a oving home, wait till your married for awhile first. You sound young, dont rush it. You cant send them back after they are here.
2006-11-06 03:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to have kids until you are married .... cuz it might turn for the worst if you have a kid and your not married... he might find out that there's soooo much work involved that he'll end everything ... that's just my opinion, cuz so often are you hearing stories about mom's striving to feed and care for there kids... but you never hear about the Dad's so i would most deff. wait until your married
2006-11-06 03:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Bekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first. We don't need anymore illegitimate kids running around with no daddy in sight. What's wrong with you? Think of your future kid's best interest. Not your selfish desire to try to hang onto your boyfriend.
2006-11-06 03:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up and have children when your married and responsible. Why do you want to have a child so bad with a guy your only dating and not married to is a better question
2006-11-06 03:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have a baby just because you feel like it. It would be helpful if you are married.
2006-11-06 03:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by The Masked Marauder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about babies until you both are ready for marriage. There are millions of unwed mothers struggling to feed and care for their families.
2006-11-06 03:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex without a condom...Then he really dont have a choice..Lol..No just kidding!! Just start talkin about kids..then ask him when...dont make it seem like you want one, cuz it could freak him out a bit...but just have a general convo about it!!
2006-11-06 03:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Beatty's♥Girl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋