I recently hurt an EX. I now realize I want him back and he knows how I feel... he says he needs time and Its not me at all... He does care.. But I really want to express to him and I'm truely sorry and I want him to accept...??? Any ideas?? TY
2006-11-06 03:05:24 · 15 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I put a card in his door yesterday... with a CD .. good??? or bad??
2006-11-06 03:20:11 · update #1
If you really want him back and want to prove to him that you do... then my first suggestion would be to LISTEN. He says he needs time, so give him the time he needs to process things. Then when the timing is right and he is ready to talk, tell him that you are sincere and are willing to compramise a lot in order to be with him... and this included giving him all the time and space he needs in order for him to feel comfortable trusting you again. By waiting, it puts the ball in his court... and guys generally like that. So relax, twiddle your thumbs, find something else to consume your mind and time with.
2006-11-06 03:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How easily ur EX forgives u depends on how badly u hurt him.But if u really feel that he is the one, then do everything in ur power to win him over again.It won't hurt to keep aside ur ego(i'm not saying u have one) and convey to him that u r the best he's ever going to find and make him realize that it would be a loss for him if he ditches u ; but never beg.Keep faith, if u both r destined to be together, then nothing can stand in its way.Good luck and never lose this chance.There's nothing worse than having to live with regret the rest of ur life.How u go about convincing him is in ur hands because as a couple u knew what his likes, dislikes and weaknesses were..so think, and u'll find the right way to approach him again.
2006-11-06 03:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by jamide06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says it is not you at all, then he has some problems including being a wimp. When you hurt someone that someone is supposed to take that as evidence that you cannot be trusted. The only reason you want to say you are sorry is because you are alone and you realize that any kind of man is better than no man at all. If you respect the guy leave him alone. Better luck next time when you are not so self involved.
2006-11-06 03:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did to hurt him... Sounds like he just needs time and the best thing you can do is to give him the time. You may want to just call him everyother day to see how he is doing and if he would like to talk. Work at getting your friendship back and maybe the relationship will come back naturally. If not it was not meant to be. Maybe, try writing him a letter about exactly how you feel, that way he can read and re-read it as he likes...
2006-11-06 03:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Karlee bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have already said it. But if you haven't, sit him down, face him, look him in the eye and apologize for what you are sorry for, tell him you were wrong, won't do it again, want him back, but understand if the hurt was too much for him. Ask him to forgive you, then the rest is up to him. Good luck, honey.
2006-11-06 03:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with an ex of mine. I tried so hard to get him back and alls i did was push him away. So just give him some time and space...He'll come around
2006-11-06 03:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by shablowme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea "Im sorry I hurt you and I understand that you need time when your ready I'll be there"
2006-11-06 03:08:47 · answer #7 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your heart to apologize. If you say you're sorry with explaination and meaning, it will seem more sincere and convicing. Be persistant (but not stalk-mode) and show this guy that you're not ready to give up with him, not yet.
2006-11-06 03:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan an evening out wid him , and pick a totally different topic until it joins u closer 2 him then kiss and pop the ques can i be ur .... again and tell him b4 he ans how sorry u are
2006-11-06 03:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by lady_flirter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've ever seen the princess diaries (i know...kiddy movie) she says sorry to her friend who she likes by sending him a pizza that says "sorry" on it with m&m's because that is his favorite thing to eat on his pizza. maybe try something like that, something that he loves to eat and make it a little cute thing like that...just an idea
2006-11-06 03:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋