I sleep w/ this guy once. We were drunk and later he told me he though he pushed it too hard on me. Ever since, I got mix signals from him. In school he likes to get close to me, does things for me, and seems to look at me all the time. When we are alone he tries to keep a distance. We were to meet last night but he never even called to say that he wasn't going to make it. Now he sends this e-mail:
"hey sorry i missed you last night. I was in and out
of sleep all day. Not really feeling too good this
weekend. I couldn't even make it to class today. Anyway, i
feel bad if i let you down. I hope i can make it up
to you when once i get better."
I do not know what he wants from me, was just sex or what?
How should I answer this e-mail?
He is good in the sack so I would like to get it on again, but I wouldn't like to be seen as a whore.
I wonder what his intentions are....any help please???!!!!
2006-11-06 03:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he cares about you but that he was not really ready or sure about committing to a more intimate relationship. You ended up having sex and he is afraid that it will happen again and that you will assume it is a serious thing. Maybe it is also serious for him, but he is just not ready to be in a committed relationship.
Talk to him! Go to a public place so he will not be afraid of the being alone with you - maybe a coffee shop. Tell him you liked it and could be with him again, but that he seems to be unsure and you need to know why.
2006-11-06 03:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by JFB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you already slept with this guy, so why are you running. You can't run anymore. He knows what you are. If you have no intentions of really hooking up with him or getting your message out blank straight then leave and don't lead him on. He's probably mixed up like you. You both seem very lost in what you want. He either is really sick or playing you for another girl. But tell him what you want and what you might think is best for the both of you! Be careful about his second dose of leaving you out of the picture! If he doesn't want that right now, just brush it off and move on. If he wants to remain bodies with privileges then go for it as long as your doesn't get hell when you have a new boyfriend come along, then it has to stop! Your young don't rush so hard into things. P.s. Don't get pregnant from jerks like him, they'll leave and never come back!
2006-11-06 11:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already slept with him once because you were drunk and now your worried about being called a whore. Its a little too late for that, move on and find a nice guy and be happy
2006-11-06 11:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably wanted sex but then regret it because of not taking his time, you can reply with whatever you want but I don't think he wants to get close to you.
2006-11-06 11:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-11-06 11:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by clown_killa_13361349 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋