ok so i dated this one chick that is awesome but a little crazy. one minute she tells me its over the next minute she loves me. well i met this amazing girl that i really like and she really likes me. i really want to date this new girl but i am afraid if i stop talking with the crazy one she may hurt herself or something. i am kinda attached to the crazy one but this new girl is gorgeous, we get along great, and i couldnt ask for a better girl to be with. what do i do?
2006-11-06 02:59:36 · 17 answers · asked by Crazy ace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maan you have issues:).... stop thinking with your pants and then everyting will be fine.....
2006-11-06 03:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have got to decide which one means the most to you, remember relationships are not based on what a person looks like in the end you have got to really get on and be good friends cus the looks thing doesnt last. Think about which one will make you the happiest in the long run. you cant have them both so you have to sacrifice then at least the other can move on and find happiness with someone else.good luck
2006-11-06 11:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by adams girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what makes you happy! You are not responsible for what crazy girl does! I would have to say that you should probably get away from her anyway! It sounds like that relationship is going nowhere - fast!! If someone is going to 'hurt themselves' it is because they are unstable and screwed up. Trust me, you leaving her will not be the cause. She may play that game with you, but if she is suicidal, you won't change that by staying with her.
Move on!! Be happy!
2006-11-06 11:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to do what is right for yourself. The situation with girl #1 is not just you, she seems to have some issues that go deeper. You can't be responsible for what other people do...if you stay in that relationship and you are miserable, it will just take a turn for the worse. You could stay friends with girl #1 and help her by being there for her when she needs a friend to talk to...
2006-11-06 11:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
for starters, youd better hope the "crazy girl" never reads this, coz if she sees so many people referring to her as the crazy girl, shell definetly hurt herself. i think you should GENTLY break it off with her, you obviously dont love her. check up on her now and then after the breakup just to make sure she's alright, and if she isnt handling it well try to get her some help (but dont let her think you want her back coz shell get her hopes up). as for the other girl, once you have ended things with crazy, date her! but make sure things are fully finished with the other girl before you make your move...
2006-11-06 13:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say go ahead with the new girl... But don't leave the other one alone for too long if you know what I mean... Just check on here every now and then... But Don't make it seem like you're cheating on either of them...
But Whatever YOU decide, I wish you the best with it...
2006-11-06 11:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sad to say it but the "crazy chick" aint your problem.
Start a new life with the gorgeous girl and be happy
2006-11-06 11:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by spunkybadger69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the crazy one might not really love you that much. why can't you tell the razy one that its over and date the other one. if the crazy one really loves you she will wise up and come back. i think that you need to celebrate being single, what would you do if you married the crazy one and she kept leaving you.
2006-11-06 11:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm wow crazy
ummm
tell her that you for her too much as a sister and you care about her well being
then break it off between the two of you but keep in touch with her as friends
as for the new girl
if you are going to get with her they don't tell the crazy one for awhile
hope that works out for you
2006-11-06 11:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by bebegirl049 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"the boy shall die!"
watch David DeAngelo - On being a man DVDz.
in these dvds he explained with a grafic that usually a relationship happens when girls go up and down, and guys try to follow her on the graph. the guys, graph should b a staight line, unaffected by those girl's oscilations. i realy recomend that u c those dvdz. or even read "Double you dating".
2006-11-06 11:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
start slowly distancing yourself from the "crazy" girl, and start spending more time with your new girl. if it gets really bad, try getting the crazy girl some help...thats all i can think of, but try to start over with this new girl--sounds like things are going great!
2006-11-06 11:02:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋