i want to marry my man more than anything in the world. should i go against tradition and propose? if so, how?

Answer 1

Do it. Do it in whatever fashion you want. Wanna kneel in front of a baseball feild of people? Do it. Wanna do it in a fancy restaurant where everyone proposes? Do it. Wanna just ask him after doing it? DO it.

do whatever you want. It's your memory.

Answer 2

I dont see why you shouldnt ask. If you really want to marry him that much and you think he feels the same then go for it. In this day and age I dont think old traditions like the man having to propose really matter as much. At the end of the day the situation is specific to you and your partner. Good luck, hope he say yes! x

Answer 3

We're living in the modern ages now, however if you want to stick to tradition a woman can only ask a man to marry her on Feb 29th. I feel the same about my man but I am a traditional girl so I believe in waiting for the man to ask because that way you know for sure a man's ready for commitment, woman do seem to be ready for commitment quicker than men but that doesn't mean he'll say no, rather than take advice from total strangers I think you should follow your heart & do what you feel is right. I wish you all the best for the future & please do let us know how it goes. x

Answer 4

Don't dally girl,do it.
Arrange a special meal for the two of you,whether it be at home or in a restaurant,have a good drink so you are both relaxed and mellow,then when you feel the moment is right,pop the question.
Don't beat around the bush,as you will get yourself in a knot.
Come straight out with it,his answer can only be Yes or No.
Good Luck and best wishes.

Answer 5

Just do it...We're in the 21st century now so if u wanna propose there should be no stopping you.
If you want to do it in private set up a special romantic night for both of you. Soft lighting, candles, romantic music, nice food and get down on one knee.
You could propose in a restaurant, but bear in mind some people react badly when in front of a roomful of strangers and may not enjoy all the attention.
Whatever you do make it special and all the best to both of you.

Answer 6

You recommend the custom of PRETENDING that the guy does the asking? ... i'm previous as dirt and ninety 9% of marriages basically ensue IF and while the female insists on it. You tell him it's time to the two make a dedication or to flow on and initiate off seeing different human beings. many times, they panic and bolt first ... and then think of it over and dad the question. stable success!

Answer 7

hi, why not if you have been going out together for a while and you are both madly in love and feel the same way about each other then why wait for him to come up with the idea, the choices are limitless on how to do it...you can buy him something and put the ring in it...cook a nice meal and get down on one knee...even give him something to eat and place the ring in the food but becareful he doesn't choke lol, i'm sure you will come up with something romantic maybe a trip somewhere...good luck i hope he says yes!

Answer 8

Go for it...I did but that was on leap year day.we are now married. The only thing is he does get embarrassed when anyone asks him how he proposed and has to tell them he didnt!!!

Answer 9

It's 2006, so why not. Girl power and all that.

Book a hotel, and propose over dinner. After dinner you can go to your room an celebrate ;-)

Good luck.

Answer 10

if your sure its what you want then go for it, although only do it if you dont have any romantic notions about gettin proposed to. traditionally a woman is only supposed to propose to a man on valentines day on a leap year so unless u fancy waitin till then ...