my mom & dad are getting a divorce & thats ok w/me because i usaully hate my dad i barely ever like him but since they r getting a divorce me & my mom moved out & now my mom is needy. she almost always needs me 2 be around & gets depressed if im not happy so now that im depressed alot i have 2 pretend 2 b happy while trying to take care of her cuz she is depressed enough on her own & if she knew im depressed she would get even worse so i try to be good not fight with her and pretend 2 b happy & b there for her but sometimes its just really hard for me because i was at my last school for 3 yrs the longest iv been anywhere & i had my best friend ever there we helped each other with everything we could tell each other everything and the other wouldnt judge she meant so much to me and now here its really hard dealing with everything by myself i have friends here but no1 like her that i would talk 2 like her, and since im depressed alot have insomnia and hate my new school i stay home more
2006-11-06 02:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by Nightchild 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
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2006-11-08 21:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for what you are dealing with.It is wrong of your mother to lean on you.I would talk to school councilor and ask
how to tell mom she needs a doctor to help Her.I am sorry for mom too,but she will end up hating herself for what She is putting you through.Maybe a easy way would be to say Mom
I am depressed too, Can we go to a therapist together ? She
does not realize She is hurting You.My best wishes to You.
2006-11-06 11:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all be brave enough and bold to face this situation.take care of ur mom,give love and ur will power that u and ur mom can fifht out this situaton and can live thier life without ur dad.then also try to find out why ur father want divorce.first try to stettle ur dispute among uyself if it doesnt settle then alternative method is divorce. feel that god is always with you,and he will do alright good things in ur life for better
2006-11-06 11:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by richa_roy94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mom should try to find a boyfriend or spend some time with friends or close family members. It sounds like she just needs a companion closer to her age and you need to adjust to your new situations. If worse comes to worse, live with your dad.
2006-11-06 10:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by jjc92787 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try talking to your school counselor or school social worker.
2006-11-06 10:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldnt be asking us, ur just to lazy to confront her, you need a theripist, sorry but im jus straight foward like that
2006-11-06 10:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by sugarbayb846 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋