My internet boyfriend of over a year moved in three months ago. He wants to get married. However, ....... he has never shown much interest in me sexually.....yet, loves to view porn on the computer and talk to other women sexually, online.
He says he loves me, etc......but, this just doesn't feel right. Reminds me of the old saying, "Don't pee on my leg and tell me it is raining."
What would you do?
2006-11-06 02:02:24 · 20 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump the bum and quick! Sounds like there are some problems going on in this guys head and you don't need to be a part of it. I think you already knew you have to get him out of your house and out of your life, you just needed confirmation and support from people not so close. Well, you are getting plenty of the same advice; so listen to all of us strangers who only want the best for you - GET RID OF HIM . . .NOW!
2006-11-06 02:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Tina R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After all the people that had anwsered this you should already know what im going to say already get rid of the online hobo cause he is milking you and taking you for everything i mean come on you let a guy u met online live with you even after all he does is talk to other women and watch porn come on something isnt right with this picture
2006-11-06 11:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by jackmort420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this.
You let a guy you met on the Internet move in with you? I am suspecting he is a squatter just looking for a place to live and for a woman to take care of him.
If all he does is watch porn and talk to other women, what kind of a relationship is that? You need to throw the bum out and move on with your life.
2006-11-06 10:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it if that dosent work dont get married it is better you deal with this now before you get married and then have to get a divorce just tell him your done. he ethier dosent love you and is using you or he loves you and he is just an idiot
2006-11-06 10:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by parkerpine313 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Through his *** out and don't date people on line anymore. On the computer it is easy because people can pretend they are whoever and whatever you want them to be but in life it isn't that simple then you have to be who you really are. Disappointing huh?
2006-11-06 10:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him!!!!!
It isn't about you, it's about him and his on line porn addiction.
I'm sorry, I don't have any sites on hand that can help him.
You need a man that can work off line with you.
Do things that interest and satisfy both of you.
Keep looking.
2006-11-06 10:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's a voyeur - he likes to watch and think about others engaging in sexual activity, but he has no real desire to engage in it himself. Sounds to me like he needs a good psychologist right now, not a girlfriend. God bless!
2006-11-06 10:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him, he sounds like he is using you. If he really wanted you he would want to show that in many ways - including in a sexual way.
2006-11-06 10:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you met him on the internet probably hi is adicted to it......talk to him and ask him if he wants a real relationship or a cyber affair.
2006-11-06 10:10:00 · answer #9 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
kick him out!!! he moved in with U not u with him! y would u even allow this to continue in your house! hes playing u and is gonna keep doing it because you have shown that he can get away with it tell him to pack his bags and hit the road!
2006-11-06 10:05:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋